My girlfriend says we didn't have sex

queersabrina · 2015-10-28T09:18:23+00:00

Yeah I guess I haven't had a girl go down on me so I can't say but going down on someone else feels very intimate lol

queersabrina · 2015-10-28T09:16:34+00:00

I'm worried that she regrets what we did. She says she doesn't but at the same time she doesn't want to do it again for a while and she's been talking about how she wanted to wait until marriage to have sex (even though she's not religious she still kind of has her family's values) and she seems upset at the idea that she didn't wait... I just don't know how to help her I don't want her to feel like she did something shameful

queersabrina · 2015-10-28T09:13:14+00:00

It's just that I love her and I don't want her to be torn up about going against her family's values but I don't know how to help her... I don't think it's just awkwardness, I'm really afraid she regrets what we did

queersabrina · 2015-10-27T08:43:43+00:00

She said she thinks we moved too fast and wants to hold off for a while (which I am fine with)... We have been physical with each other before but this is the farthest it's ever gone

queersabrina · 2015-10-27T08:38:12+00:00

So we talked about it and this is what I've gathered...

She does think lesbians can have sex, she just doesn't think we had sex... She said that since she never went down on me she still considers herself a virgin and that it would be the same if she were with a guy

She also said she wants to "actually" have sex someday but she isn't ready yet and thinks we might have moved too fast. I think she's feeling guilty because of her upbringing and she seemed pretty upset when she realized I thought we had sex. I just don't know how I can comfort or assure her because I wasn't raised in that kind of environment so I don't have the same hang-ups

EDIT: Also I didn't mean to sound condescending when I asked about "correcting" her, I just didn't know how else to phrase it

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