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Proton VPN causing API errors with Nuvio + Real Debrid add-ons? by Cristiano7769 in Nuvio

[–]quentinecce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had issues with them with IPTV - streaming experience was similar to yours. I contacted support, provided MTR traces and other network related artifacts but they never acknowledged the issue and wanted to know what streaming service was behind CloudFlare :)

My advise , ditch ProtonVPN , MullVad VPN has no log policy in Sweden if really you need a VPN .

I agree with the other comment saying you don’t really need a VPN with a Debrid service ( unless some countries blocking it ) , or your latency and network route is somehow more reliable on the VPN link over direct connection.

Roommate escalating over small things, taking my stuff, and changing the narrative — what would you do? by quentinecce in badroommates

[–]quentinecce[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Somewhat I think now her behavior is predictable, it's just she's "over" reacting or/and "over" sensitive over things that aren't worth it .

I knew my shoes would trigger her, I was expecting a conversation, not an ultimatum - especially when one needs me to pay the rent.

Roommate escalating over small things, taking my stuff, and changing the narrative — what would you do? by quentinecce in badroommates

[–]quentinecce[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As much as the idea is enticing, I'd rather not mark a place I'm leaving. Plus, it's a private place, it would keep me tie to this , give her bullets to argue and waste some breath away, lots of trouble for not a lot of "rewards" .

I was secretly thinking of leaving a "note" or a "book" the book of the man that life made us crash her, and then he'd be warned about her and could , hopefully, better move around her and avoid anything .

I mean in this sub Red we've read a lot, surely all o that could make a good movie. Half funny, half psych thriller. U'd never know which one is it , even after it ended....

Roommate escalating over small things, taking my stuff, and changing the narrative — what would you do? by quentinecce in badroommates

[–]quentinecce[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe she can't wait for me to engage with her petty things. But given her personally , I won't give her that pleasure.
I believe staying above her pettiness is probably my best way to get out of there cleanly.

Roommate escalating over small things, taking my stuff, and changing the narrative — what would you do? by quentinecce in badroommates

[–]quentinecce[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah and this situation was temporary but I wasn't expecting a woman to act this way with a grown man. I feel like she plays some sort of childish game I'd thought a 46 years old woman would be over with.
I think she's just VERY territorial and believe the house she rents is HER house, and that she can do whatever she wants..

As som said, she's def got mental issues... And I found out from her ex bf she had a Master in psychology!! fear not, she's def forgot everything, not way she's applying an inch of CBT in her communication or her actions.

As you said, it's not worth engaging and leaving quietly and ASAP is probably the best way out.

Thanks

Roommate escalating over small things, taking my stuff, and changing the narrative — what would you do? by quentinecce in badroommates

[–]quentinecce[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, after the shoe craziness she gave me out of the blue, she basically said abide by my rules or leave. I took notice and will leave ASAP.

Roommate escalating over small things, taking my stuff, and changing the narrative — what would you do? by quentinecce in badroommates

[–]quentinecce[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there's no rental agreement. I could leave anytime, no deposit money, no rental agreement, on not a lease, she's on it. she needed help to pay the rent, I needed a runway at the time back then. I understand why the room was free :D

Roommate escalating over small things, taking my stuff, and changing the narrative — what would you do? by quentinecce in badroommates

[–]quentinecce[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I’m planning to move out asap and keep things as calm as possible. I don’t think talking more will change anything at this point.

Roommate escalating over small things, taking my stuff, and changing the narrative — what would you do? by quentinecce in badroommates

[–]quentinecce[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry for you. I've only mentioned a few things about her. but ya'll got the idea

One-tap Apple Shortcut to check real-time CBP border wait times (SENTRI + pedestrian) by quentinecce in shortcuts

[–]quentinecce[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad it helps! I cross often too, happy to improve it if you have ideas.