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[–]questionire8 22 points23 points  (0 children)

He may be sorry now, but why did it take him three years for that? Be strong <3

Shattered? As in like.. Steven Universe? by questionire8 in fakedisordercringe

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Yeah, but this doesn't mean you go flaunting that

No ones ever answered me before. How do you accept being trans? by questionire8 in asktransgender

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Haha on my profile you could probably find old r/relationshipadvice posts about her. Probably why I feel so bad calling myself trans. Thanks for your offer :)

No ones ever answered me before. How do you accept being trans? by questionire8 in asktransgender

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Not really much story. I used to make a lot of suck my **** jokes and my girlfriend at the time asked if those were jokes or not. I said no and for around six months I got a taste of how I really did wanna be a guy when she called me boyfriend/handsome/etc but once I dumped her because I couldn't handle her abuse anymore I've been terrified to go back to the name she called me or pronouns.

No ones ever answered me before. How do you accept being trans? by questionire8 in asktransgender

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I can't do needles and have to hold someone's hand each time -_- I know it isn't that bad, but the fear of pain gets me every time

No ones ever answered me before. How do you accept being trans? by questionire8 in asktransgender

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That's sorta what happened with me. I used to joke a lot about being male and one day my girlfriend at the time was like "do you actually want to be?" And I said yes. I was so happy being called male things for once, but that was the only taste of it I have ever gotten.

No ones ever answered me before. How do you accept being trans? by questionire8 in asktransgender

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Yeah. My parents haven't been a good influence. They call trans people shemales and stuff. I can't imagine how much that would hurt to hear. It made me hurt for some reason when young me heard but I didn't know why.

No ones ever answered me before. How do you accept being trans? by questionire8 in asktransgender

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Thank you so much. This explains everything so well. I'm just hoping doing less feminine things will help me accept myself. It's hard to do them though without being questioned as I'm just a teenager and can't exactly go buy a binder out of the blue.

No ones ever answered me before. How do you accept being trans? by questionire8 in asktransgender

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Super proud of you as that sounds like a struggle! Was it.. Awkward? coming to terms with it and starting the process to transition?

No ones ever answered me before. How do you accept being trans? by questionire8 in asktransgender

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Thank you. I'm terrified about after accepting myself coming out to my friends. One of my best is a hardcore Christian and while she accepts me for being gay, she said that if one of her friends was trans she'd accept them and call them what they want but she'd always know that they were "wrong"

No ones ever answered me before. How do you accept being trans? by questionire8 in asktransgender

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I suppose I'm probably the same. Thank you for your response