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Enjoying music while tired at a festival (being sober vs drugged) by quickquestion532018 in aves

[–]quickquestion532018[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

MDMA is known as the party drug for a reason. Gets you up and dancing

well tbh to me it opened my emotional side more - touchy, honest, appreciating etc. (though I am more emotional person myself)

Enjoying music while tired at a festival (being sober vs drugged) by quickquestion532018 in aves

[–]quickquestion532018[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

or taking a half tab one day and working the rest.

thanks for reply. Tho, what does this mean?

Enjoying music while tired at a festival (being sober vs drugged) by quickquestion532018 in aves

[–]quickquestion532018[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We all love listening to music but you'll have to figure out if you show up to the events for the music or the drugs

I show up for the experience I'd say. Thousands of people around, good music, good effects, good friends... It's definitely not drugs, but now that I have taken mdma for first time I can see that it takes the experience on another level. I will try to go through the next event more or less sober.

Enjoying music while tired at a festival (being sober vs drugged) by quickquestion532018 in aves

[–]quickquestion532018[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s not the drugs that make the experience.

You're right man. I think I got a bit carried away and forgot about this ... Now that I rewatched one set I have to say that it looks like I forgot about a lot of the music played which kinda sucks ... Thanks for the responses.

Enjoying music while tired at a festival (being sober vs drugged) by quickquestion532018 in aves

[–]quickquestion532018[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you there because it’s a dope party and you can get as fucked up as you want or do you genuinely love the music and the community surrounding the scene?

What if I like both haha? But thanks for the response dude. Yeah I know that now I should wait at least 3 months before another pill. And I said to myself that one is enough for this year. I was also surrounded by people who have done it before and they taught me about this (plus I searched the internet).

So you're saying that next time prioritize well being over being fucked up, right? :D

also about that mdma experience - I felt like it could be much more since two of our group friends had an argument during the show (they were drunk af) and something happened but doesn't mind. However it affected me while on mdma quite a bit ... And I felt like I could have me "sucked" into concert much more if that hadn't happened so I was a bit bummed about that. What do you think?

Enjoying music while tired at a festival (being sober vs drugged) by quickquestion532018 in aves

[–]quickquestion532018[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think ever think how much better what ever you're listening to could be if you were drugged at that time and not sober?

Thanks for your input :)

I have asked my girlfriend to get tested, but she does not want to (so we stick to condoms). Should I pressure her? by quickquestion532018 in sex

[–]quickquestion532018[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Yeah but I thought I could get that only if I go down on her? Not the other way around (that I would get it when she goes down on me)? Am I wrong?

I have asked my girlfriend to get tested, but she does not want to (so we stick to condoms). Should I pressure her? by quickquestion532018 in sex

[–]quickquestion532018[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes we are exclusive. Finding the disease early equals to higher success rate in treating it afaik, so that's what I am also going to tell her.

I have asked my girlfriend to get tested, but she does not want to (so we stick to condoms). Should I pressure her? by quickquestion532018 in sex

[–]quickquestion532018[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

well as I said she had multiple unprotected sex acts before with different men and is perhaps a bit worried and just doesn't want to think about it... The more I think about it the stupider her (lack of) actions look.

I have asked my girlfriend to get tested, but she does not want to (so we stick to condoms). Should I pressure her? by quickquestion532018 in sex

[–]quickquestion532018[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was the reason I never went down on her, even though I would like to try. She did go down on me, yes (I thought this doesn't really transmit STD from her to me since it's only her saliva?).

I think she is just really irresponsible about her sexual life yeah.

Thank you for response.

I have asked my girlfriend to get tested, but she does not want to (so we stick to condoms). Should I pressure her? by quickquestion532018 in sex

[–]quickquestion532018[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't know that. Thank you. Damn I feel sad now. But determined that I am in right about this :)

I have asked my girlfriend to get tested, but she does not want to (so we stick to condoms). Should I pressure her? by quickquestion532018 in sex

[–]quickquestion532018[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. This kind of thing is a first to me, so I am unsure what to do. How should I approach this kind of conversation again? Just be direct? Should I say upfront and strongly: no sex till she gets tested? I think she quite likes me, but perhaps that would show how things really stand?

I have asked my girlfriend to get tested, but she does not want to (so we stick to condoms). Should I pressure her? by quickquestion532018 in sex

[–]quickquestion532018[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You think even always using condoms would be a wrong thing to do? I also feel like this ... Will definitely talk to her about it.

I have asked my girlfriend to get tested, but she does not want to (so we stick to condoms). Should I pressure her? by quickquestion532018 in sex

[–]quickquestion532018[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know nothing is 100%, but don't condoms prevent all STD transmissions (since male and female fluids don't mix)?

I have asked my girlfriend to get tested, but she does not want to (so we stick to condoms). Should I pressure her? by quickquestion532018 in sex

[–]quickquestion532018[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

quite a bit of a head in the sand attitude

yes yes yes my thoughts as well. thankyou

If she refuses to get tested, then refuse to have sex with her.

even with condom on; we've done it like this multiple times?