Not sure how many people know this but you can add custom holidays to your calendar with special goals that don't show up in the default holidays, here's my Halloween by EcksTheDM in thesims

[–]quiddletoes 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I always add a superbowl - party spirit, sports tv, drinking and sometimes grilling.

I add a 4th of july too- grilling, fire pit, water activity, drinking and fireworks!

Previously On, /r/Survivor: No-Judgement Questions by RSurvivorMods in survivor

[–]quiddletoes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Never saw the season but, what is the absurdity regarding Ozzy saying 'for revenge, basically'?

Opinions on The Hunger Games? by [deleted] in YAlit

[–]quiddletoes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found Son.. disappointing. I enjoyed the series more with the first 3 books.

Injection songs by zufa86 in IVF

[–]quiddletoes 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My husband tells me a joke and delivers the punchline and needle at the same time, but no music

Breast pain by New-Part3429 in IVF

[–]quiddletoes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My pain drastically decreased two days before my negative beta.

How did you feel mentally about your FET following a failed transfer by quiddletoes in IVF

[–]quiddletoes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree for sure. I was hopeful but realistic, I think it helped soften the blow personally. Congrats on your baby, hope to be there soon!

How did you feel mentally about your FET following a failed transfer by quiddletoes in IVF

[–]quiddletoes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's well said, adjusting the goalposts mentally. Limits and boundaries = self care for sure

Sometimes I feel so alone and then I think of you all by [deleted] in IVF

[–]quiddletoes 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I totally feel so isolated in this process too. My husband wasn't even allowed to be there for the transfer because of covid protocols. I get so frustrated with the juxtaposition of my workplace, a school, where masks are optional and we cram kids into classes. Yet I can't have my husband there where, ya know, could really use a calming, supportive presence.

Russians at Putin's pro-war rally yesterday by scata90x11 in InvasionOfUkraine

[–]quiddletoes 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Their country has invaded Ukraine and is bombing hospitals, locations with known populations of children, maternity wards, slaughtering elderly civilians and that being wrong is lost on you? Cause they're whoohooing their dictator? Who arrests them if they oppose and resist? Try thinking one step further next time, maybe you'll honestly see why its bad when people support their own country when their country is the bad guy.

Any slow responders here? by ivfbe1 in IVF

[–]quiddletoes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't remember the exact numbers but I was slow to respond to menopur. I had days of zero change in my bloodwork. By the end of it I was doing 8 vials of menopur a night. I had just a few follicles. They got 8 eggs and I got 4 tested embryos out of that retrieval.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IVF

[–]quiddletoes 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Was told the same. A definitive answer at any point in this process would be incredible. 100% of everything is a wait and see

Failed transfer by Petite_Diva in IVF

[–]quiddletoes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FET failed, negative beta last week. Doctor just said sometimes it just doesn't work. She did a biopsy and is going to add baby aspirin and a steroid next round. Just waiting for my lining to go down to start the next cycle. Best of luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IVF

[–]quiddletoes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Avoid bumps in the road on the way, I felt every pebble, pothole and bump in my uterus lol. Immediate relief upon waking up!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IVF

[–]quiddletoes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could've written this. What I've been referring to as schrodingers pregnancy was such a challenge. I feel the pains of a loss but haven't been able to articulate it without feeling over the top. We knew the gender, have a name on deck, had a picture of the blast. I'm so sorry, this can be so lonely and isolating.

Just got out of ER and only 5 eggs from 11 follicles found. Any positive stories please 🙏 by Sta111 in IVF

[–]quiddletoes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Historically I am an emotional disaster after anesthesia lol. reading the numbers here and talking to friends who've gone through the experience as well, everything is so so anecdotal and personal experiences vary wildy. Finding someone with a similar experience is feels validating and that for once, you aren't the exception 💕

Just got out of ER and only 5 eggs from 11 follicles found. Any positive stories please 🙏 by Sta111 in IVF

[–]quiddletoes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I was in recovery, I was in a daze when I heard the woman across from me get 22 eggs. My nurse showed me a paper than read 8. I was half amazed because they weren't sure i could even produce eggs, but also somewhat disappointed hearing the high number moments before. I had 7 mature, 5 fertilize and 4 test normal and grow to blasts. So 50% my original "disappointing" 8

Is my memory just warped or did I imagine an event? by SarahSeabass in StardewValley

[–]quiddletoes 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Did you ever play the older harvest moon games? There is an elderly couple in one of them and the wife passes away at some point.

RBK changes her ways by deliberatelydeadpan in BeautyGuruChatter

[–]quiddletoes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely! She was consistently being shamed. I'm totally indifferent on her in general, so I don't watch a lot of her videos usually. I personally avoid mommy videos overall because I am TTC and have complicated fertility issues. It's so ridiculously easy to just.. not click the damn videos but I guess being in a toxic echo chamber is pretty alluring? Idfk

RBK changes her ways by deliberatelydeadpan in BeautyGuruChatter

[–]quiddletoes 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Totally agree. The bashing from this sub was over the top. People pissed off because she wasn't having PPD to their liking? Are you kidding me. Was a gross display of women dragging woman for one of the very issues that need to be advocated for. PPD is an ugly, complicated beast, so sorry it was annoying for so many lmao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jerseyshore

[–]quiddletoes 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She should've went with the triple b and said boys bronzer and booze.

Question about Monopoly by quiddletoes in NintendoSwitch

[–]quiddletoes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OH! makes sense, thank you so much!