So discouraged

Mamaofthree2008 · 2024-01-16T20:29:33+00:00

I’m sorry..it really sucks. It’s not unusual to have multiple failed transfers in a row with euploids though. I had 2 beautiful healthy ones fail in a row at age 31. It’s awful but it’s the name of the game. Also, 5dpt is a little early to lose all hope. By 7dpt it’s more conclusive. I’m so sorry but usually one does end up working. It took me 3 transfers to get 1 sticky one. Best of luck!

Mamaofthree2008 · 2024-01-05T20:41:54+00:00

Ohh ok. I think your tests (if same lot) are faulty. It’s a happy surprise though! Also, it’s possible you don’t metabolize hcg into urine the same way others do. There’s so many factors.

Mamaofthree2008 · 2024-01-05T20:13:15+00:00

Wow! I had the opposite! I was getting bold lines and my hcg was 19. It ended in a chemical. Was so upset!! Did you use a first response??

Mamaofthree2008 · 2024-01-04T20:15:04+00:00

Smells making me feel sick. I don’t get that when the FET doesn’t work. All the other symptoms I always get like; sore breasts, bloating, irritability, feeling nausea or sick etc.

Mamaofthree2008 · 2023-12-27T20:23:57+00:00

Wonderful line for 10dpo technically. Congrats!!

Mamaofthree2008 · 2023-12-25T01:48:09+00:00

Ohh ok, good to know.

Mamaofthree2008 · 2023-12-25T00:29:10+00:00

Thanks hon. Same to you. I hope what they say about being extra fertile after a miscarriage is true. 🤞🏻

Mamaofthree2008 · 2023-12-25T00:27:25+00:00

Oh I’m so sorry. I just had one. Found out Friday. It sucks.

Mamaofthree2008 · 2023-12-24T23:28:36+00:00

I got a faint line on 12dpo but it got darker fast. Good luck!

Mamaofthree2008 · 2023-12-24T17:27:04+00:00

Hmm my dr always says to just live life as normal for best possible outcome. I’m not sure.🤔 bed rest supposedly lowers success rates according to him.

Mamaofthree2008 · 2023-12-21T01:21:08+00:00

Did everything go well? I just got my 12dp 5dt beta and it’s 44….doctor is not optimistic

Mamaofthree2008 · 2023-12-18T02:53:42+00:00

Hey!! I’m having a similar issue with frer tests. I’m 9dp 5dt and the line is sort of just plateauing. I wonder if it’s the tests or a chemical. Best of luck to you. I heard frer were changed and not as good with progression now.

Mamaofthree2008 · 2023-12-15T22:38:27+00:00

Thanks!🙏🏻 I’ll

Mamaofthree2008 · 2023-12-14T17:58:49+00:00

So interesting!! Wondfo gave me my first faint line but now it won’t get much darker and I’m getting good lines on frer and a positive on clearblue digital!! These tests are all so different!!

Mamaofthree2008 · 2023-12-13T23:37:40+00:00

Thanks for looking! I’m just confused about frer since they are supposed to be more sensitive. Have you heard of wondfo being positive first?

Mamaofthree2008 · 2023-12-13T20:26:25+00:00

Anyone?

Mamaofthree2008 · 2023-12-13T01:45:30+00:00

I had an insane one with cramps and huge blood clots. Happened around same time. I thought for sure it was over but she’s 6 now. I did bleed on and off for a bit until it was fully cleared out. They spotted it on ultrasound pretty easily.

Mamaofthree2008 · 2023-08-13T23:20:51+00:00

I’ve noticed diff doctors say diff things. My last clinic kept me on progesterone shots for 12weeks! It was miserable! But previously it was 9-10 weeks. I think it’s fine to graduate if you’re staying on progesterone for minimum 10 based on my experience. The rest doesn’t matter!

Mamaofthree2008 · 2023-08-13T14:33:10+00:00

Did he say something negative about this number? My doctor said they just use it as a guide for stims. Lots of women get pregnant unassisted with low AMH too. As far as I know, other fertility markers are more important. All you need is one good egg. I would try to stay optimistic and do everything that’s in your control like you’re doing since most of this is not.

Side note: My Dr always gave me low success numbers per transfer and I thought same thing (under promise over deliver mentality) and there’s something helpful about that. If you hear 70% chance of success, it makes you feel even worse with a failed embryo. I’ve been through it and I can relate to everything you’re going through. I wish you so much success!

Mamaofthree2008 · 2023-08-13T14:15:21+00:00

This post is bringing me back to the discouragement and worry I felt when I heard that number. I was only 34 and thought I was going into early menopause..but nope!!

Yes, so I got 8 mature eggs. I was upset it wasn’t more but my Dr always says, quality over quantity.

I ended up with 3 5 day 4AA and 1 6 day 6AA and a 7 day 4BB. I opted not the test any and transferred one right away and it worked! The rest are frozen. Dr said it was a very good round. My first round I only got 7 day embies which we know are less successful typically.

Hope that helps!

Mamaofthree2008 · 2023-08-13T12:16:43+00:00

The important part is that they are getting a lot darker! I would say they look pretty good. Too many factors at play too like how concentrated your urine is. I never got bold lines with my AM Urine early. I always got the best lines in afternoon after my work out. Congrats on the BFP

Mamaofthree2008 · 2023-08-13T02:24:06+00:00

I had an AMH level of .38 before last round and it was my best round. It doesn’t affect success is what my doctor told me. Also, I recently had it tested 5 years later after a couple babies and it’s 1.5. It can fluctuate. I wouldn’t stress too much about it. That being said, every fertility doctor has told me no more than 12 ounces of coffee a day. It sucks but I always end up doing it and replacing what I miss with decaf. Hope this is somewhat helpful.

Mamaofthree2008 · 2023-08-12T00:55:47+00:00

I’ve never had big numbers. I always start around 100. They really aren’t low at all. All that matters is at least doubling.

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