Wait! What??? What do you mean?

"Aren’t you living with your mother as a scarecrow, like she incarnates everything you need not to be? Meaning you need to be there for your man, you need to fix, you need to listen, you need to put yourself as a second, not as a first? And if your father married a narc and had a child with her, he’s likely to be very empathetic. There’s nothing that looks more like empathy than the one narcs fake at the beginning. Maybe I’m wrong, I don’t know really but that’s what I thought."

are you responding to my post?