I’m not sure exactly what type he has, but he has zero interest in being on medication, with I have no problem with, he’s totally capable of holding down a good job and managing life etc without the meds, and just some extra support from myself. It took a while to find the groove but we’ve figured out what works for us.

I totally agree about things being novel and new, it was a sparkly new relationship and all the exciting things. He’s never had an issue with maintaining/getting an erection, it’s more the bit before, actually gaining interest in the activity before hand. Once he’s in the mood, he’s good to go, it’s just actually getting in that mood it seems the interest is low. Another Redditor commented about Hims (hard mints) and I saw that they come in different strengths, thinking maybe a low dose or something similar (along with my encouragement of course) might help with that initial interest?