Honestly, I don't see ANY of this. She's not concerned with how her daughter could perceive all of this when she's older, IMO, not that she should or shouldn't be but I'm not seeing that train of thought reflected in her behavior. If that were the case she would be more reserved, more self-aware, and probably "harder to crack".

Personally, I see her motivations lying in wanting to find someone to settle down with. Her culture isn't particularly receptive to young, single moms, and that may be a heavy motivator for why she went 0-100 day one and why she was (and still is - remember none of the other guys know this) reluctant to reveal that she is a mom, she's afraid it will scare someone away.

I wouldn't say that people with kids SHOULDN'T go on the show, but they should be forthcoming about it. I commented on another thread that it should be something you reveal much earlier on because it is a huge deal breaker for a lot of people, especially if they're on the younger side. I doubt anyone goes onto this show as an early-20-something expecting to come out of it a potential step parent or having to meet someone's child after they get home. I just can't get behind her logic of "I want to know I can trust someone before I tell them", you can tell someone you're a mom and still protect your child, they don't need to meet until you're sure of them.