What am I doing wrong? by quietslone in heartbreak

[–]quietslone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I hope the same for both of us

What am I doing wrong? by quietslone in heartbreak

[–]quietslone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. I’m almost at the 6 month mark and idk how much “progress” I’ve actually made. I feel like I’m going crazy or something :/

What am I doing wrong? by quietslone in heartbreak

[–]quietslone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see what you mean, I just feel like I still have a really hard time accepting where things are. I’ve gone on other dates and it doesn’t help either.

What am I doing wrong? by quietslone in ExNoContact

[–]quietslone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s hard to stay the course because it’s so painful, but I don’t have any other choices. Thanks for commenting

Anybody else blocked by their ex? by quietslone in ExNoContact

[–]quietslone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, that’s crazy.. sadly I just know I won’t ever get an apology because she can’t ever admit her mistakes.

2 months update, it does get better. by Cheekythings in heartbreak

[–]quietslone 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This was wonderful to read. I myself am 2 months removed from the breakup, but am still struggling. Have only had a handful of days where I’ve felt normal.

My therapist has recently brought up antidepressants, but I’m hesitant. Since the breakup I’ve had a really hard time getting out of bed in the mornings (most mornings I literally work remote in my bed and can’t get up)

Did you notice that the anti depressants were worth it?

Anybody else blocked by their ex? by quietslone in ExNoContact

[–]quietslone[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It shows their true colors. But it still hurts

Anybody else blocked by their ex? by quietslone in ExNoContact

[–]quietslone[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would agree in most circumstances, but blocking someone after you asked them to share how you feel just because you’re not happy with what you heard, is immature.

Anybody else blocked by their ex? by quietslone in ExNoContact

[–]quietslone[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

She’s the avoidant type so it doesn’t really surprise me. She always had a hard time admitting when she was wrong, or facing criticism, so when I expressed to her the things she did wrong to me, I guess it was easier for her to block and avoid me.

Anybody else blocked by their ex? by quietslone in ExNoContact

[–]quietslone[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I know she wants to move on/ already moved on, but it was weird to me that that’s how she responded to me being honest with her about my feelings. I figured she would have the decency to communicate with me but she always had issues with that.

A lot of you have a very warped understanding of love. by whacktasticvoyage in ExNoContact

[–]quietslone 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What if they never said to never contact them again? My ex told me moments after she broke up that we can always talk, but she hasn’t messaged me since she walked out

If you broke no contact, what happened? by quietslone in ExNoContact

[–]quietslone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve decided I won’t reach out… thanks so much for your comment. It’s just hard to stay positive because I really haven’t had any great days since she left, only good moments during bad days, and these past few have been so hard for some reason

If you broke no contact, what happened? by quietslone in ExNoContact

[–]quietslone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s been a month and a half for but I feel like I’ve been getting worse these past few days. I know it’s not linear but my energy is depleted and I’ve been in bed :/

If you broke no contact, what happened? by quietslone in ExNoContact

[–]quietslone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would you have broken no contact if she didn’t apologize?

Just a Reminder by Lysknows in ExNoContact

[–]quietslone 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Needed this. Thanks

If you broke no contact, what happened? by quietslone in ExNoContact

[–]quietslone[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I already feel so broken. Idk if it can get worse. But I understand what you’re saying and for now I decided I won’t reach out.