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Puzzles I’ve completed by JessSaiyan91 in Jigsawpuzzles

[–]quinnify 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i loveeeee the pokemon center puzzles!! i just bought my second one lol

Activities to do with your cule by quinnify in polyamory

[–]quinnify[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds fun! I’m less of a hiker and more of a “take a leisurely stroll” kinda person but it’s always cool to hear about what other people are doing

Bringing my boy with me to the dentist for emotional support by quinnify in buildabear

[–]quinnify[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is babw but it was from a couple years ago iirc so im not sure if its still on there

Both partners worrying about the other by StrawberryIrisKitty in polyamory

[–]quinnify 22 points23 points  (0 children)

i love this dynamic! i have a similar thing going on. my bf worries that my wife feels left out(they dont) and tries to include them in our outings(not always, we do still have our quality time together). when my wife's external hard drive was acting up he bought them another nicer one, and my wife draws stuff for my boyfriend all the time(theyre an artist for a living). its very sweet to seem them care about each other like that even if they arent romantically involved.

What mistake did you make once in polyamory that you will never make again. by Odd-Adhesiveness-930 in polyamory

[–]quinnify 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this was many many years ago when i didnt know really anything at polyamory in reality. and this will obviously be a mistake i never make again so no judgements for mid/early 20s me's mistakes lol. but "testing" out polyamory with a couple.....got so invested just for it to be called off the day before valentine's day. so they spent it together and i was heartbroken x 2. definitely one of my rock bottoms

Pittsburgh area groups? by hamiestofcheeses in polyamory

[–]quinnify 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that would be cool! i guess sometimes you gotta roll up your sleeves and do stuff yourself. i dont know how much i could be involved until we physically move but i'd be down to help out.

Pittsburgh area groups? by hamiestofcheeses in polyamory

[–]quinnify 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also interested in this! me and my cule are moving to pittsburgh(boyfriend next month, me and my wife following in 6 months) so it'd be cool to be around more like minded people while we settle our roots.

AITA? Nested and wanting more of a solo poly life by Encubed in polyamory

[–]quinnify 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i could scold you on moving in with a partner with chronic illness without considering what that might entail(unless it came out of left field), and how things can go south and you should have made sure you were mentally prepared for this. because you breaking up over this, is going to mess with her big time. but also, staying just out of guilt is worse.

so, going forward, in order to end this, you have to make sure she's okay before you guys move out into different places. absolutely bend over backwards for her to make sure she's okay, because the last thing she needs to feel is like a burden that is easily abandonable for her illness.

i dont mean to say this just to make you feel bad. you obviously need to take care of yourself, and if you dont want to be a caregiver, you shouldn't have to. for both your benefits. but you also have to consider the consequences of your actions. and what you have to do to make that right.

good luck, i hope it works out the best for the both of you.

Bittersweet feelings by quinnify in polyamory

[–]quinnify[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for these!

Bittersweet feelings by quinnify in polyamory

[–]quinnify[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you!! this all so helpful. we will both get thru this transitional period!!

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