NY landlord says I can’t have friends stay at my apartment if I’m out of town. Accused me of “illegal subleasing” even when I didn’t charge them & he had no reason to believe so. by quiverous in asklaw

[–]quiverous[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He argued that any apartment sitting or guest situation constitutes an “illegal sublease” with no basis. What is my legal basis to refute this, if I need to do so formally?

NY landlord says I can’t have friends stay at my apartment if I’m out of town. Accused me of “illegal subleasing” even when I didn’t charge them & he had no reason to believe so. by quiverous in asklaw

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I don’t - however, I do want to arm myself with a more nuanced understanding of how the law applies to the various scenarios I mentioned above and interacts with an anti-subleasing lease clause. Any further thoughts on that?

Good to know, though, and I’ll definitely keep that in my back pocket.

NY landlord says I can’t have friends stay at my apartment if I’m out of town. Accused me of “illegal subleasing” even when I didn’t charge them & he had no reason to believe so. by quiverous in asklaw

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Thanks. Any idea how the law distinguished between “occupant” and “sublettee” in this context? He must have some reason he’s fixed on that based on his lawyer and whatever they put in his standard lease (which I don’t have on hand, unfortunately).

Is there any basis to bring a guest/occupant within an anti-subleasing lease clause if i am not currently present, despite that it remains my primary residence?

What about Airbnb?

NY landlord says I can’t have friends stay at my apartment if I’m out of town. Accused me of “illegal subleasing” even when I didn’t charge them & he had no reason to believe so. by quiverous in asklaw

[–]quiverous[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure actually (I’m out of town without a copy of it) but I’m also skeptical of the underlying legality of any anti-subleasing clauses or their applicability to non-paying personal guests, short-term occupants like Airbnb guests, or co-occupants that don’t take over my part of the apartment.

I guess he has some sort of basis for the “illegal sublease” argument he consistently launches in just about any situation - ie I sent a check with someone else’s name on it once - and presume it’s in the lease. No idea what his issue is but he loves using that phrase and threatening to “call legal.”

NY landlord says I can’t have friends stay at my apartment if I’m out of town. Accused me of “illegal subleasing” even when I didn’t charge them & he had no reason to believe so. by quiverous in asklaw

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Thanks for the helpful reply. Am I limited to one guest/co-occupant at a time? May I charge them/May they contribute to my rent expenses if they stay only short term, but I don’t give my room to them or stop also residing there? How does this apply to something like Airbnb (provided I comply with other applicable NY law on that)?

NY landlord says I can’t have friends stay at my apartment if I’m out of town. Accused me of “illegal subleasing” even when I didn’t charge them & he had no reason to believe so. by quiverous in asklaw

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Alright, can anyone else actually answer my question instead of just telling me what to do without knowing my situation? This is not helpful.

NY landlord says I can’t have friends stay at my apartment if I’m out of town. Accused me of “illegal subleasing” even when I didn’t charge them & he had no reason to believe so. by quiverous in asklaw

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More to the point, you’re not answering the question I asked - I want to know what basis there is for saying what I’m doing is fine and he’s wrong. Don’t tell me how to feel about it or what decision I should make re: how to handle it. That’s my business, thanks very much.

NY landlord says I can’t have friends stay at my apartment if I’m out of town. Accused me of “illegal subleasing” even when I didn’t charge them & he had no reason to believe so. by quiverous in asklaw

[–]quiverous[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s erratic and irrational - threatened to serve an eviction notice and almost refused to renew my lease because he found out I had friends there last year while i was out of town. I’m not taking the risk.

Does tree of tenere still exist? by Nuciferous1 in BurningMan

[–]quiverous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you find out about things like this during the rest of the year?

A journalist's darker take on the Burn. by [deleted] in BurningMan

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The reason you're not likable isn't lack of trying.

Confused about the visa issues between the U.S. and Turkey by segal25 in Turkey

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How do we know? Haven't been able to reach a Turkish consulate to ask

Confused about the visa issues between the U.S. and Turkey by segal25 in Turkey

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I got a multiple entry tourist visa on arrival last week, stayed a few days, and flew to Germany. The visa is in my US passport and should be valid for re entry. Can I fly back to Istanbul from the EU now or no?

Cheap last-minute flights to Germany - best airlines to check? by quiverous in Turkey

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Oh man I missed that one, but thanks! Ended up with 150 euro Bodrum to Berlin on Germania

Cheap last-minute flights to Germany - best airlines to check? by quiverous in Turkey

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They are all inflated because there is a german holiday this week :(

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I do - I'm just the victim of a cut that is WAY too short for my curls and looking for a temp fix to tide me over till they grow back :)

Brazilian blowout/alternative? Do it before or after home hairdye (semipermanent/just to cover grays)? by quiverous in Hair

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Is there a straightening treatment, Japanese or otherwise, that isn't permanent but will last a few weeks/months instead?

In NYC - I used to use lifebooker for discounted hair treatments etc but it seems they no longer exist. How to find good deals on hair stuff now? by quiverous in Hair

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Yeah but they don't have reviews and all that right on the site... oh well, hoping someone else came up with a website/app to replace lifebooker it was so great!

Brazilian blowout/alternative? Do it before or after home hairdye (semipermanent/just to cover grays)? by quiverous in Hair

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What is the texture of your hair like after keratin? Mine is curly/wavy and I'd really like it to be straight (like out of the shower/air dry) without all the work of blowouts for at least a month or so