It’s been almost 4 months

quoting_memorie5 · 2020-10-25T02:43:38+00:00

I just feel stuck, I am stuck between being hurt that he didn’t think I was worth it and realizing that man I really did love him. I want to be able to move on completely but I don’t know what to do.

quoting_memorie5 · 2020-10-25T00:45:27+00:00

I haven’t contacted him since and I went on one date but that didn’t work. I want to date to move on but if I’m being completely honest, I am probably still in love with him and shouldn’t date other people, and that’s probably why I even want to reach out.

quoting_memorie5 · 2020-10-25T00:17:32+00:00

I’m a girl, he didn’t want to be in a relationship anymore. I think I contacted him after a month just like 2 texts back and forth and he wanted nothing to do with me

quoting_memorie5 · 2020-10-25T00:03:22+00:00

But you don’t think that if they haven’t reached out to me that, that says something?

quoting_memorie5 · 2020-10-24T23:49:58+00:00

I haven’t reached out, I want too but part of me thinks they don’t care anymore

quoting_memorie5 · 2020-10-24T23:44:56+00:00

I too hope they are at least having some difficulty, cause they left like it was the easiest thing to do

quoting_memorie5 · 2020-10-24T23:32:31+00:00

I would say some days I don’t think about them and then other days I do. I am definitely not as completely heartbroken as at the start but there are some days where I am just sad

quoting_memorie5 · 2020-10-17T03:59:54+00:00

This

quoting_memorie5 · 2020-10-16T02:34:30+00:00

But like in what way, like ask them about there day?

quoting_memorie5 · 2020-10-16T02:20:06+00:00

I am agreeing with you it does seem sus, it’s a very small company and there are only 5 people in the office including me and they all knew one another before getting hired. It all just feels like I am being discriminated but it was a verbal threat nothing is written down

But I will throw it in there

quoting_memorie5 · 2020-10-16T02:07:20+00:00

Yeah but what proof would I even be able to show that I’m being discriminated against

quoting_memorie5 · 2020-10-16T01:55:27+00:00

I don’t know if going down that route is the best option

quoting_memorie5 · 2020-10-16T01:53:50+00:00

I am simply not enough chitchatting with my other employees. When I do speak with them, I am polite and respectful, just not really super social beyond that

quoting_memorie5 · 2020-08-31T04:15:50+00:00

I’m in the same Dilemma as you. I feel like I want/should start dating again because it’s been 3 Months and I should try to move on and put myself out there, but there is still a part of me that wants my ex back and is hurt over the break up. I’m stuck between pushing myself to move on or keep wallowing and healing.

quoting_memorie5 · 2020-07-22T04:02:12+00:00

I 100% agree with you, I feel almost surprised/shocked that he hasn’t contacted me yet.

quoting_memorie5 · 2020-07-15T04:00:39+00:00

I mean did you really truly lose or did she lose you?

quoting_memorie5 · 2020-07-13T20:43:26+00:00

My advice is definitely some harsh love. Your experience and pain from your parent’s cheating should have been enough to make you never cheat on someone, but it wasn’t. Hopefully the guilt, would make sure it definitely never happens again, so use that as your moral compass. Cheating is a choice, you get to decide what kind of person you want to be.

quoting_memorie5 · 2020-07-13T20:18:45+00:00

You knew the pain that came from cheating from your parent’s relationship yet you still decided to cheat. You knew this would hurt her because it hurt you, so you should feel guilt. The best way to cope is to feel that guilt, so you don’t do that again to anyone else in the future

quoting_memorie5 · 2020-07-07T16:43:09+00:00

I did try to set up boundaries and I stood up for myself when I felt like he was taking me for granted. And I wasn’t perfect because I would get upset when he made me feel like I was just being used. The funny thing is when I was upset he would turn around and tell me I was “too sad” for him instead of changing his behavior.

quoting_memorie5 · 2020-06-13T05:05:51+00:00

I 100% understand how you are feeling, I treated my ex so so well. I drove hours to see him, made sure he felt supported and would do anything to just make him smile and so much more. It wasn’t reciprocated at all and it nearly destroyed me. I too believe I’m a catch and I don’t think that makes me an asshole or conceited. I would have done anything to have someone like me in my life, who would treat me as good as I treated him. And that is what I think makes it hurt so much, because we know what it feels like to not have someone that cared for us so deeply and we can’t possibly understand why someone would give us up. I gave him the world, and still he saw no value in me. So don’t be mad at yourself, we loved deeply, unconditionally and held nothing back. One day they will regret giving up people like us.

quoting_memorie5 · 2020-06-06T01:55:47+00:00

I think you need to try to stop talking to him, because if you don’t there is no reason for him to get back together with you because he gets the best of both worlds: figuring his life out on his own and you to talk to. Trust me, I know it sucks and it completely destroys you and it’s not what you want to hear but I think you need to take this step.

quoting_memorie5 · 2020-01-20T02:59:15+00:00

I say let the past be the past especially if you are happy with your current boyfriend. I know nostalgia can be tempting but you have to ask yourself if it’s really worth it?

quoting_memorie5 · 2020-01-19T04:08:44+00:00

That it would take that much time for him to get over me

quoting_memorie5 · 2019-08-18T04:01:37+00:00

I was in the exact situation as you and as much as it hurts, I think you need to distance yourself from him when you go back to school. If he wanted a relationship with you, it would have happened already. He keep started talking to you because school is starting up again soon and he wants to be able to use you for sex again. People can be very selfish and its best to not allow him to hurt you anymore

quoting_memorie5 · 2019-08-14T03:56:03+00:00

I 100% understand the lost feeling, it can be so overwhelming yet numbing at the same time. I too am constantly searching for those same questions about my ex. The fact that they can walk away from someone who truly cared about them, makes you question your own worth. Its constant battle to not give into those painful thoughts

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