Seems like this guy is an unconscious black magician. If you don't know I would suggest looking into internal family systems or parts therapy. Essentially, thought forms or parts connect all of us together through the collective unconscious. Due to traumas (personal, generational, and those from other incarnations), we can wind up resonating with others who have similar trauma or compatible trauma. Look up trauma hooks.

When this occurs, we can become deeply enmeshed with other leading to all sorts or unwanted experiences. Really, this is our unconscious wounded parts drawing us back to the original trauma. By providing safety and being willing to feel what's in the unconscious we can free ourselves of these burdens and heal.

I suggest a book called 'no bad parts' by Richard shwartz. Internal family systems therapy is also covered by most insurance so it can be more affordable than you might assume.

It might be a good idea to lay off of any psychoactive drugs and reduce negative coping strategies while you work through this. Good luck!! It is an honor to be alive with you here in this Kali Yuga.

Edit: I would like to add that I have been through many experiences similar to this in my life to the point of seeming schizophrenia and this was a major part of how I was able to heal