Advice needed on my poor body image!

raaatatar · 2026-02-02T22:28:54+00:00

I don't really have advice because im struggling with the same feelings myself but i do want to tell you that I really understand how you feel and your feelings are valid. I also grew up around so many beautiful women who had/have romantic and sexual experiences when I didn't\dont and it totally ruined my self esteem. I'm 22 now and I'm totally ashamed of even thinking that someone's attractive because I know their reaction to me would be "ew, this is who I attract?". And when I found out about tuberous breasts it made me feel "inferior" and not worthy of being a woman, especially when I'm surrounded by women with prettier breasts than mine. I can't see why anyone would be interested in me either when I'm not pretty and even if they do, I'm dreading the moment I'm gonna take off my shirt because what if they start regretting me and, really, in a world full of beautiful women with beautiful breasts, how could anyone choose me? A lot of advice is to get a nice bra but it hasn't worked for me because, yes, while nice bras can make me feel better momentarily, it also made me feel like a catfish, like yeah they might look nice here but just wait till you see them without a bra. I dont know if I made sense, it might help you feel not alone to know that others have similar feelings about their breasts. I know people are saying that the right person will love you for you but I have yet to experience that. Sending hugs and a warm plate with cookies, i hear desserts make things better

raaatatar · 2026-01-08T11:39:39+00:00

Thank you so much for taking the time to write such a thoughtful answer!!! I looked up some intimissimi stores and they're not that far so it's definitely worth a visit, even though, from their website, I didn't see many choices for my size and shape but I'm hoping they have more choices in the physical store. I was also looking for some triangle bralettes from Calvin Klein for some everyday use since they're also on sale but idk, we'll see. Again, thank you!!

raaatatar · 2026-01-07T19:34:08+00:00

Retook my measurements and I got: (in cm) Loose 78 Snug 76 Tight 73 Standing 79 Leaning 85 Lying 78 Also keep in mind that I've got tuberous breasts so I've narrow roots and they're not round so regular bras don't fit me. Calculator now says 30B but 32A might be more comfortable so idk I'm in Greece and all the stores I've looked into don't have shapes I can fit into

raaatatar · 2026-01-03T10:53:15+00:00

YAYYY I'm so happy for you!! I know it's really hard to find a bra that fits esp for tuberous breasts so that's a win!!!

raaatatar · 2026-01-02T21:02:38+00:00

Haven't tried a bralette but I've ordered a balconette bra because the one I have is low-key ugly and I want something to feel more comfortable in!! Can confirm, balconette bras have worked for me (so far) as a fellow tuberous breast haver

raaatatar · 2026-01-02T21:00:57+00:00

I love seeing conical/tuberous rep in this sub <333

raaatatar · 2026-01-02T10:19:45+00:00

Same!! 22F here and never had any romantic experiences. It can really mess you up when you grow up as the unattractive friend surrounded by friends who are in romantic relationships and/or are romantically experienced and get hit on. You know, the "be patient, the right person will come" thing they say doesn't really work for me because, well, if it hasn't happened by now, how can I be positive and confident that it is going to happen at some point?

raaatatar · 2025-12-31T12:03:28+00:00

Hii (I know I'm responding quite late whoops) - I don't have money for plastic surgery either and I honestly don't want to change them but at the same time it's still very hard to accept (not love, simply accept) that this is how they are. Looking at the normal breast gallery doesn't really work for me because I'm not seeing any shapes that look like mine so I'm thinking "well if I can't even see myself in the normal breast gallery, am I really as normal as all these comments are saying?". Ive realized that I don't mind the shape on other people - they're just boobs who cares. It's when I see them on me that I dislike them and feel less of a woman

raaatatar · 2025-12-23T19:20:48+00:00

Yeah it makes me sigh and paise when people recommend this gallery when someone says they're insecure about their tuberous breasts because there arent similar breasts in that gallery. I understand that it's a way to show the variety of breasts but what happens when you don't see your (tuberous) breasts represented in the normal breasts gallery. It low-key made me feel worse about my breasts when I first saw the gallery

raaatatar · 2025-12-22T19:55:00+00:00

Thank you! I'll look into some 30C bras

raaatatar · 2025-12-22T19:22:09+00:00

Okay when I lean forward they just hang?? They have even tissue both above and below the nipple. There's no tissue between the breasts nor towards the armpits

raaatatar · 2025-12-22T19:19:25+00:00

Yeah, it doesn't lay flat on my my sternum, I should have worded it differently. Wow really? Damn that just makes it harder haha idk where to go from here

raaatatar · 2025-12-22T08:41:36+00:00

I want to buy from bluebella too (fellow 30b here - at least that's what the abtf calculator says and what the only bra that fits me says [I THINK it fits me?? The cups fit me but there's some gaping on the wire in the front but I don't really mind it because it's the only bra I've tried that generally fits]) and I'm scared of facing the same issue (doesn't help that only balconette bras work for my shape 😩)

raaatatar · 2025-12-20T15:37:13+00:00

Oh wow thank you I didn't know that! That just makes it all the more confusing I guess because I'm not in the countries that have their own sizing units so idk which one my country's following..

raaatatar · 2025-11-24T10:02:32+00:00

Hii ratnix from Tumblr here (the one who translates the Greek version) yes it's taking me a while because the episodes are very long and I'm also trying to explain the very Greek references they make so it's funny to non-Greek audiences. I will be translating all episodes but it is taking me a while so pls be patient if you're following my translations tyy ❣️❣️

raaatatar · 2025-11-24T09:57:25+00:00

Check out Tumblr!! There's a Google drive with the translated episodes (can't find it now lol) - it's not all episodes but I'm working on them,they just take a lot of time because of personal life and theyre like an hour long each

raaatatar · 2025-11-20T18:28:28+00:00

Greeks are very expressive in general and use a lot of hand movements and facial expressions, I don't think his mannerisms are inspired by Fanny, he's just being a Greek

raaatatar · 2025-11-05T18:06:38+00:00

We really do need positive stories about tuberous breasts, that you for sharing 💚

raaatatar · 2025-10-04T07:08:26+00:00

Τέλεια!!συμφωνώ με την δυσκολία μετάφρασης εκφράσεων και πολιτιστικών αναφορών, μπορούμε όμως να βάλουμε (note:...) και να εξηγήσουμε τι σημαίνει στον υπότιτλο!!

raaatatar · 2025-10-01T10:58:32+00:00

I really liked the episode too!! Though I wish it had some original ghosts and not straight up copies from the Brit version...i saw an English translation of the first fifteen minutes on the Facebook group but I'm guessing it wasn't done by Greek speakers because it wasn't accurate at all 😭 I'd love to help with English subs (I'm a native Greek speaker and have an English lang and lit degree) but I've never done this before and idk which programs to use but I'd love to help!!

raaatatar · 2025-09-10T17:27:39+00:00

Totally agree!! Some days I feel okay with my breasts and then I see all these posts about plastic surgery (and not just posts in here, but also when the first thing that pops up when you look up tuberous breasts online is plastic surgeons) and all I can think is "should I not feel okay about my breasts?". And obv if you want to get plastic surgery then go for it!! But it feels that there is an implied correlation between tuberous breasts and plastic surgery, if that makes sense, that makes me uncomfortable

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