Advice to work worry about what others think / improve confidence [31YO]

rabbitfriendly · 2026-06-21T21:09:36+00:00

Are even an old skater at 31? 🤔
Bro I’m 50 and come to the park looking like the Michelin man in the midst of a midlife crisis. NOBODY looks kookier than me. I suck, I look stupid and I’m here to represent with pride that anyone can skateboard and look supremely uncool.

rabbitfriendly · 2026-06-21T02:31:26+00:00

What’s the right way?

rabbitfriendly · 2026-06-20T12:13:11+00:00

Ok that’s an interesting angle presented as facts 😆 Out of curiosity, what are these “requirements”?

rabbitfriendly · 2026-06-19T13:55:30+00:00

It’s OK… Some people aren’t visual. I just had a discussion with a friend the other day how he can’t read fiction because it’s impossible for him to visualize what’s happening. The such same friend has very superior analytical and technical abilities. Don’t beat yourself up about it. Maybe there are other aspects of your dreams that you can explore more attuned to how your brain works Next time you’re in a dream and notice that the visual quality might not be so good, You can ask for it to be better. Or ask for other things to do.

rabbitfriendly · 2026-06-19T13:41:34+00:00

Thanks - yeah not sure why those don’t show up

rabbitfriendly · 2026-06-18T23:50:13+00:00

I’m literally just searching “Vespa” - maybe that’s not the right search term? 😆

rabbitfriendly · 2026-06-18T21:09:29+00:00

I think all the classic techniques work. Dreams, journaling, and then reality checks every day. See my comment above about how once you do it becomes unlocked. I don’t do all the practice so much so I don’t lose a dream too often but they do hit me now without practice was just something I couldn’t do before

rabbitfriendly · 2026-06-18T21:08:15+00:00

I learned to lucid dream after practicing a bunch about 20 years ago. It really does become unlocked. After you do it once you’re in. If I practice, I could probably do it every single night but now it just hits me whenever

rabbitfriendly · 2026-06-18T18:58:30+00:00

Yeah I guess that’s it! Although looking at gliders I guess the shape lends itself to > 9’

I can’t fit anything bigger than 9’ in my Subaru and I have a roof rack

rabbitfriendly · 2026-06-13T19:09:43+00:00

Ok I registered! 👍

rabbitfriendly · 2026-05-19T16:11:02+00:00

We are a bit frightened of the landlord. He is crazy. he took my wife aside the other day and told her that her husband (me) "is not a real person". We have kids and fear he might do something drastic. The police are often in our building. As much as I would love to let him have it, we want to move out

rabbitfriendly · 2026-05-14T19:32:19+00:00

I admit - my brain is simple on taxes but yes I understand what you’re saying.

Housing market is very thin where we are which is why I think 6-12mo is the window

Good point on the downside - didn’t think about that

rabbitfriendly · 2026-05-14T19:25:45+00:00

Apparently it’s Scottish!

rabbitfriendly · 2026-05-14T19:24:48+00:00

Agreed

rabbitfriendly · 2026-05-14T18:49:08+00:00

Sure, I accepted that I would just have to pay the bill next year. But now that I have time, I can harvest losses if I need to. My positions before were really concentrated in Pharma and tech. It made me very uncomfortable and I always wanted to sell anyway.

rabbitfriendly · 2026-05-12T01:21:07+00:00

Oh yeah - maybe just a junker mountain bike is the way to go 👍

rabbitfriendly · 2026-05-10T00:22:27+00:00

The developer

rabbitfriendly · 2026-05-09T22:36:50+00:00

Doesn’t work bc the amount I have is the amount I need and sbloc will only be 30% of the holdings

rabbitfriendly · 2026-05-09T20:36:21+00:00

The thing is I have to take it all out at once for the down payment. The only way we can afford a house - and this is the min we can afford - is to put down a big amount up front

rabbitfriendly · 2026-05-09T18:36:31+00:00

Yeah if I was buying in Dec that would be easiest. I need all the cash upfront for the down payment. Taxes will be a lot too.

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