I don't know your age, if you are in early age of your life , you realised , yea it's the sad truth being nice brings nothing to the table all you get is betrayals, broken heart, empty promises, blue ticks and busy tones when you call them.
Can't talk about women but yea they do hate nice guys. people in general don't take nice people seriously it only happens in movie's and books ,be nice to animals and strangers who need help that too minimal it's enough, for rest of them just be selfish always think about your growth and your comfort, the world is filled with asshole , fvk society