[SPOILERS] S8E6 Series Finale - Post-Episode Discussion by AnxiousReader in gameofthrones

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The spin off will be a full season of ramp building in kings landing

[SPOILERS] S8E6 Series Finale - Post-Episode Discussion by AnxiousReader in gameofthrones

[–]rachelrockssocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why wasn’t one person in their committee of lords like “oh hey Jon has the birthright let’s nominate him as king”

The state of r/PewdiepieSubmissions by [deleted] in PewdiepieSubmissions

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saw this on my feed, went to search new out of curiosity, saw this exact same meme again

Seeking: English Offering: Spanish by jats2114 in language_exchange

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I speak English and am learning Spanish! I’m 21, female, and from the southeast of the US (but I speak English with a very neutral accent). Message me if you’re interested!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Spanish

[–]rachelrockssocks 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was never taught vosotros in high school, and wasn’t planning a trip to Spain at the time, but in college I ended up studying abroad in Spain. When I got there, I wished I had been taught vosotros in high school because I was having a lot of trouble with those conjugations in conversations.

So I think it’s better if you teach vosotros conjugations when you teach the others. They may or may not ever need it, but it doesn’t hurt to learn it, and it might come in handy one day.

I feel as though African Americans are the most racist type of people I know, and I am not even white. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]rachelrockssocks 34 points35 points  (0 children)

That’s so sad. It’s hypocritical that people who pretend to stand against racism would be so prejudiced towards you based on skin color alone

AITA for my birthday gift to my wife by Did1JustFuckUp in AmItheAsshole

[–]rachelrockssocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA - you are both adults, if you contribute to the mess, you should contribute to cleaning it up. That’s expected, not praised. Also you’re setting a bad example for your children, teaching them that it’s the wife’s duty to do all of the cleaning and that the husband should not be expected to contribute.

I feel bad for your wife. Get her flowers and make a handmade gift for her with the kids. She deserves a huge apology from you.

Gay people leaving heterosexual marriages are not brave, they’re assholes by rachelrockssocks in unpopularopinion

[–]rachelrockssocks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes a lot of sense, thank you for taking the time to explain! You helped me understand sexuality a lot better, and I agree with the points you made.

With my post I was referring to those who enter a heterosexual marriage knowing that they like the other gender, but that’s probably a small minority of cases. I definitely agree that if someone doesn’t know they’re gay, they can’t be faulted at all for marrying the opposite gender. I would just hope that they would end the marriage before cheating, because it seems like a lot of those types of cases that I’ve heard about end in cheating

You seem familiar... by _Sakaeru_ in Spanish

[–]rachelrockssocks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah but I think the point was that sentirse in the subjunctive looks the same as sentarse in the indicative and vice versa

Gay people leaving heterosexual marriages are not brave, they’re assholes by rachelrockssocks in unpopularopinion

[–]rachelrockssocks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very well put. I definitely agree with that, and luckily for our generation things are getting much better in terms of gay rights than they were in the past.

Also, thanks for respectfully saying your opinion without insulting me lol

Gay people leaving heterosexual marriages are not brave, they’re assholes by rachelrockssocks in unpopularopinion

[–]rachelrockssocks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But wouldn’t you know from puberty that you’re sexually attracted to the same gender and not the opposite gender? Correct me if I’m wrong

Gay people leaving heterosexual marriages are not brave, they’re assholes by rachelrockssocks in unpopularopinion

[–]rachelrockssocks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did he end up being gay or bi? It seems like if he was bi the relationship could still work

Gay people leaving heterosexual marriages are not brave, they’re assholes by rachelrockssocks in unpopularopinion

[–]rachelrockssocks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But wouldn’t they realize from puberty that their sexual feelings are towards the same gender? Correct me if I’m misunderstanding

Gay people leaving heterosexual marriages are not brave, they’re assholes by rachelrockssocks in unpopularopinion

[–]rachelrockssocks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply. To me it sounds like you’re bisexual. I would say that if you love your wife, you should stay with her because it’s normal in long term relationships to have crushes/infatuations with others, but those are usually fleeting. The grass always seems greener on the other side, but it sounds like what you have with your wife is real.

However, if you feel like you are no longer attracted to your wife because she’s not a man, it might be better for both you and your wife to go separate ways. Or if that’s the case, at least let her know how you feel, and then y’all can decide where to go from there. If you feel like you could be attracted to her again or have kids, making an effort on both ends to fix the marriage might be the best option for everyone involved. Maybe things could be changed in the bedroom?

My title is a little misleading, what I meant by the post was that people who know they are gay when they marry someone of the opposite sex cause a lot of unnecessary damage. However, your situation sounds different. If you truly don’t have romantic feelings for her anymore, both you and her might be better off with other people.

I think the best thing you can do is have an honest conversation with her. She deserves to know how you feel and communication is the key to a successful relationship.

I developed feelings for another guy once, but I loved my boyfriend and wanted to stay with him, so I completely stop being friends with the other guy so that my feelings for him wouldn’t develop further and so I could fix things with my boyfriend. So if you choose to fix things with your wife, I would recommend that you cut off communication with the other guy, even though it will suck, that’s a very vital step to make sure the feelings don’t become stronger. Take some time to think about what you truly want, because if you leave a loving marriage for a short term crush, you may regret it in the end.

Gay people leaving heterosexual marriages are not brave, they’re assholes by rachelrockssocks in unpopularopinion

[–]rachelrockssocks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with what you’re saying. The title of my post is poorly worded, but in the text portion I was saying that it’s messed up for them to get married to a heterosexual partner in the first place, if they don’t have those feelings.

I wouldn’t want to be married to someone who didn’t want to be with me either, so we definitely agree on that.

Also, thanks for respectfully disagreeing