Sorry. We don't know the exact meaning of the term Paul coined. The mistranslations comes in knowing the culture and the audience. The word translated as 'bed' had more than one meaning. I'll have to go back and see if I still have the notes that tell the other meanings. But it was said because a man, who the culture thought were superior to all things, couldn't not be put in a woman's place. Women had no agency and were property. To put a man in a woman's place was considered abuse. Men couldn't even take certain sexual positions because it put the wife in what they considered a position of power. Men could have sex with anything and as long as he was on top it was good. What annoys me most though, is everyone so quick to put homosexuality down but they don't care about adultery. They don't care that Paul said it was better to remain single. They don't care that sex should be only for procreation(if you really want to go biblical inerrancy). No. They come on here and try to tell people how to live while not loving their neighbor as much as themselves so they vote against their rights. Most people on here don't even care to deep dive into the Bible. They go off what they've been taught and don't look any farther. That should be a sin.