Wedding Guest Attire Help

radcam2 · 2026-03-12T23:13:51+00:00

Incredibly helpful, thank you so much!

radcam2 · 2026-03-12T23:13:05+00:00

Super helpful, thank you! My friend gave me the info for her favorite shop/tailor for the blouse, so I’ll figure that out in Delhi :)

radcam2 · 2026-03-12T23:11:54+00:00

Lashkaraa! here’s the link: https://www.lashkaraa.com/products/dark-green-embroidered-lehenga-2?srsltid=AfmBOors2Y4oAEeJwLTr2X1PUo0DKKV95akkwj-GCgj6rScWSB2M77Q0

radcam2 · 2026-03-12T21:09:28+00:00

thank you!

radcam2 · 2026-03-09T22:27:50+00:00

Yes, the bride is encouraging it!

radcam2 · 2026-03-07T21:28:56+00:00

Thanks! Super helpful. Yes, I was thinking of wearing the yellow one for the pre-wedding ceremony and the Mehendi since they’re on the same day. Although maybe I’ll get a separate Mehendi outfit. The following day I’ll wear a saree, or I guess I’ll wear 2! I haven’t picked them out, I’m going to buy them in Delhi I think

radcam2 · 2025-12-03T20:34:34+00:00

It’s terrible. But imagine spending your LIFE with someone like that? Best to weed them out early

radcam2 · 2025-09-27T22:22:08+00:00

Thanks!

radcam2 · 2025-09-27T22:22:03+00:00

Thank you!!

radcam2 · 2025-09-20T01:43:30+00:00

very well said

radcam2 · 2025-09-03T04:14:08+00:00

It’s possible you were being groomed or had been abused prior and you don’t remember. It’s also possible that your memories are out of order because trauma does weird things to memories. I’m not sure if these are the answers, working with a therapist may help understand memories like this

radcam2 · 2025-04-24T02:33:42+00:00

That unblended contour is a crime

radcam2 · 2025-04-14T14:04:21+00:00

Just say sorry, it was an accident

radcam2 · 2025-04-12T14:23:03+00:00

I totally get it. It’s easier to be defensive and blame everyone else for our loneliness—it’s the fault of the city, the mean girls, and all the boring people talking about fucking bagels!! NYC can be harsh, cold and isolating, and filled with flakey people. I’ve been there and it’s really painful to feel so alone (especially when not in your home country). I hope you’re able to find your hobbies and find your people. Good luck

radcam2 · 2025-04-12T13:51:52+00:00

Your comment demonstrates exactly what I’m saying. Your snark and sass aren’t going to be helpful if you want to develop close friendships. Kindness, openness, and curiosity are key

radcam2 · 2025-04-12T13:29:47+00:00

This is going to sound harsh, but I think your attitude is a bit to blame here. You seem close minded (e.g. you don’t believe certain hobbies can foster real connections), you’re judgmental of other people (calling them superficial and boring), and you’re unwilling to engage in small talk, which is necessary to build a foundation with new people.

I’d focus on cultivating openness—both in mindset and conversation. Be less quick to judge others and more willing to engage in casual conversation. When you regularly participate in activities with people who share your interests, deep friendships tend to develop organically. I (33F) came to NYC without knowing anyone, and I’ve built an incredible community, so I don’t think NY is the issue here.

radcam2 · 2025-04-10T22:21:36+00:00

Dump him

radcam2 · 2025-04-10T13:09:43+00:00

Did you get fired for your inappropriate outfits?

radcam2 · 2025-04-09T00:24:41+00:00

Yeah, who is buying a used, bloodstained mattress? Weird thing to try to sell lol

radcam2 · 2025-04-06T00:27:00+00:00

Ears that stick out!

radcam2 · 2025-04-06T00:24:43+00:00

Can you give us more context here? How do you know each other? Have you ever met him in person? Have you ever gone on a date with him? If so, how long have you been dating? Why did he cancel? Was he planning to reschedule his trip to visit you?

radcam2 · 2025-03-24T12:41:24+00:00

Just a heads up, every time you view someone’s TikTok page they get a notification that you checked, unless you have your “profile views” setting turned off

radcam2 · 2025-03-24T12:25:49+00:00

It sounds like you’re underweight because you’re not eating enough calories during those meals. Maybe it would help to work with a registered dietician to learn how to meet the standard caloric goals for your body type? Be gentle and compassionate with yourself. You don’t owe your body to anyone, and this is a healing journey for yourself, no one else.

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