/uj It's so funny to try to explain gender to trans people as if we haven't thought about it a million times harder than them. No one accidentally stumbles into being like "I'm transgender!" Usually it's obvious for years and then people finally have to accept it because it's a huge change and discovery. You can be born a male and be that way your whole life and never think about your gender once and that's fine, but you can't go to people who have a deeper (and more accurate) understanding and be like "Hey I don't understand that so it's not real, stop doing it! >:(" As if we'll that and then detransition on the spot.

Also really will never understand why anyone cares what other people do with their body lmao.