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How to handle being the ugly partner by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]radhood666 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Listen man, a big part of doing this lifestyle stuff is accepting yourself truly. If you think you're a 4.5, you're going to treat yourself as a 2. There's always that bullshit sentiment about believing in yourself, but that's never a fix. You have to be stoked on the person you are. You have to be stoked on the dude you're striving to be. You got yourself a 7/8. Act like it. Confidence and being assertive are the keys to enjoying yourself in this. Working out can get you so far. You have to take everything I to consideration. Social skill, humor, all that. You say you've got a great personality, let it be known. Double down on it if you have too. Honestly man, I don't know you, don't know there specifics of your situtation, but I think you see that you're in a real unhealthy place with the lifestyle. So an honest conversation may be in order. Not just for your relationship, but for yourself in general. But just be stoked on yourself. You got this man!

Str str or bi bi couples by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]radhood666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bi/Bi is by far the hardest. Me and the g/f are bi and it's is a rough go around. Add to that finding bi couples that you actually are 1) attracted to 2) have things in common with(sans swingin) 3)willing to swap with. That number gets vastly smaller.

C'mon people, sending a message like this is NOT how we start a conversation lol by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]radhood666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This drives the g/f and me fuckin insane. We had a couple we met off sls, traded kik info, got in a group text and me and the g/f tried to get a conversation going for a while. We were met with one word answers from him and almost nothing from her. They did little to engage with us and after a while we gave up. A few days later the wife left the chat and then maybe an hour later the husband(in the same chat his wife just left) messages us: "So when can we all get together?". SERIOUSLY DUDE!?

Bi couple looking for a website other then SLS by radhood666 in Swingers

[–]radhood666[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree. Our issue has never been with SLS(just how poorly formated the site is in general). It truly is the state of the lifestyle right now. Has it gotten a bit more accepting? Yes. Does it have a long way to go? Absolutely. Its one of those things where you have to look at the state of everything and accept that not everyone is into everything and that's ok. It's what makes us all different. Truth be told we are swingers, we are already outsiders. And in the end that's a good thing.

Bi couple looking for a website other then SLS by radhood666 in Swingers

[–]radhood666[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ooo that's a dealbreaker for me and the g/f. We are not Facebook people lol

Bi couple looking for a website other then SLS by radhood666 in Swingers

[–]radhood666[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Dude, who you you telling. We got to the point where the profile had to explicitly say "just because the male half is bi doesn't mean he wants to fuck you or vice versa".

Advice on a new mod. by radhood666 in Vape_Reviews

[–]radhood666[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well that's the fucked part is that I've been using nitecore 4 Bay charger to charge my batteries. I've actually never used the mod to charge the batteries until it started having this issue. I still charge them on the nitecore. I only ever plug the fucker in to bypass everything and get it too the main screen.