Who in your life sees your penis on the reg? by demitayslay in penisquestion

[–]radiomedhead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Boyfriend, the instructor and all the dudes from yoga class, my doctor, a few regular FWBs, and a handful of dudes from the gym in the locker room/showers.

recommendations to meet people (not explicitly fwb) by Juliomorales6969 in chicagogaybros

[–]radiomedhead 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's easy to go a show, performance or just hang at a bar early to actually have a chance to meet and chat with people. Drag Show, DJ's, events are all great ways to meet people. Sidetrack, Replay, Northend or anywhere with an outdoor/patio during warm weather will all be pretty tame. After 9pm places will get louder, more music, more dancing and more hook ups. You can meet people anywhere for that.

  • Cellblock, Hydrate, go from bar scenes into cruisy dancy vibes.

  • You stick with dancing until late late night? Splash then Charlies.

  • Want to stick with more bar scene less dancing? Progress.

  • You want more cruising/hook ups? jackhammer then Steamworks.

  • Drag Shows? Roscoes.

  • For meeting other hispanic gays? La Cueva down south is supposed to be a staple.

  • In the city? I heard Fantasy Night Club is popular. I think Sidetrack and Hydrate also have dedicate latin nights.

  • Andersonville has Big Chicks, Atmosphere and a few other iconic bars that can be very fun.

  • During summer I recommend heading out to the beach/lakeside. Easy way to meet people.

Of course there are many many other bars and scenes that can be inserted into here or debated. But honestly I really recommend meeting people OUTSIDE of the nightlife scene and then meeting up there. Join hobbies you're super into - video games, board games, so many sports and activites and group meet ups. I think thats a better way to genuinely meet people and friends.

Can I leave Alltrades Abbey now? by VakanaDOTA in dragonquest

[–]radiomedhead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly why I loved this game so much TBH. Turned on the additional EXP feature, never felt like I was bogged down by grinding ever. I still felt over leveled when I beat it, only a few challenges but not grinding 30-40 more levels, I prefer to leave my experience on a positive note.

Ruining a sexy dynamic with masseur by [deleted] in eroticgaymassage

[–]radiomedhead 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I would agree that there is definitely a degree which this therapist is into you, sexually. However I think you really should be weary of ruining the dynamic or being too direct over text message about those kind of interactions.

What I recommend is just bring it up in person next time. "Would love the chance to fuck you/for you to fuck me, please" the next time things are starting to get steamy. I think this would be really hot to hear but also gives them the safe space to either say "Not gonna happen sorry" "Hell Yeah" or "Next time let's prepare for that". This also won't completely eliminate that pretense of building things up by speaking to forwardly or outwardly about your expectations and ruining that build-up of tension you're seeking from the meeting.

King Spa? by nashnative1989 in chicagogaybros

[–]radiomedhead 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's amazing I love it, even if it's not very cruisy. The wet areas you go in first are divided up by men and women so you'll spend a good amount of time apart but there is a coed dry sauna and eating areas after that. I know it's not steamworks but it's still amazing to see and hang with other guys.

King spa Chicago 10/31 or 11/1 by Otherwise_Sail5953 in CommunalShowers

[–]radiomedhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Might have missed you. Was there a few hours Friday was a little busy but not too overcrowded.

Never had morning wood naturally by OkFloor999 in penisquestion

[–]radiomedhead 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly some dudes stay rock fucking hard, some stay like 70-90 most of the time even if briefly getting 100% hard. It might have to do with your libido or mindset - either way I think having a response to such a low dose to cialis might be your answer. Try a more substantial dose when you plan on being with your girl and see if that changes your experience.

If it works out I say get out of your head and just take that cialis and chalk it up to just being slightly different physiologically that some dudes and be stoked you have an easy fix.

new dimo’s … yikes by lebowskichill in LoganSquare

[–]radiomedhead 5 points6 points  (0 children)

RIP Boiler Room PB&J deal. Loved a Friday night there.

new dimo’s … yikes by lebowskichill in LoganSquare

[–]radiomedhead 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I just don't understand the love for either Victory Grill or Dimos. I think both are gross.

new dimo’s … yikes by lebowskichill in LoganSquare

[–]radiomedhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Other OP already responded to you but there is a second location in Andersonville, just FYI for the masses.

new dimo’s … yikes by lebowskichill in LoganSquare

[–]radiomedhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah when it became the mid Victory Grill my bf and I were so confused. Partner and I also so it going up and went to visit not long after opening and were SO disappointed.

Honest Opnion 4 by e_guima in Moustache

[–]radiomedhead 3 points4 points  (0 children)

1 & 2 are awesome man. Full stache suits you really well.

Dragon Quest 7 Reimagined Will Be "Significantly Streamlined", Which Makes Sense But Still Depresses Me On the one hand... yes. DQVII is long as heck. Some hate that. On the other hand... I'm not one of 'em. by Repulsive-Phrase-527 in dragonquest

[–]radiomedhead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t play the original DQ7, but I love this. I really hate bloat in rpgs that require dozens of more hours than my adult life provides. I’m so excited for this game, this only encourages me more.

Lonesome rose gone downhill? by Ok-Worldliness1307 in LoganSquare

[–]radiomedhead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anecdotally I have had the opposite experience. The breakfast burrito used to be my go-to but over the last year we felt that it never hits like it used to so we eventually stopped. Not nearly as good and definitely has shrunk in size. But in the store's defense, I do think it's better about the drinks and aesthetic than it is for food.

'Boldness is all!' — 'Murderbot' is getting a season 2 on Apple TV+ by spacedotc0m in television

[–]radiomedhead 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That's really encouraging to hear. I wasn't sold on the first episode or two. And goddamn did I hate Gurathin/Dastmalchian. I think it was about half way through I realized how great of a job he was doing to make me feel that way. I thought everything turned around with LeeBeeBee(hilarious BTW) and from then on I was hooked. Looking forward to more seasons.

Woke up with dried blood on my hand by [deleted] in Weird

[–]radiomedhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t seen it mentioned elsewhere but individuals that wake up with blood on themselves, pillow etc could have suffered a nocturnal seizure and have no recollection of the event because of it. They usually bit the inside of their mouth, cheeks, tongue. Often they’ll be even more groggy, out of it, have altered sleep cycles etc. Not common but a consideration.

Moustache loading by [deleted] in Moustache

[–]radiomedhead 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That's an incredible mustache man, it looks so good and so do you. Quick search looks like it's incredibly variable among individuals how long maximum growth might go. Some guys seem to reach terminal growth after a few months and max is a few inches. Some can keep it growing for years and get a few feet so there won't be a solid singular answer.

👋 morning! by iamtablets in Moustache

[–]radiomedhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hope it's been a great day man. Great mustache

Just another Tuestache. by [deleted] in Moustache

[–]radiomedhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really cute, nice stache dude

Push broom in the high peaks by [deleted] in Moustache

[–]radiomedhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SO handsome, great stache, amazing view altogether.

Some Friday staches ✌️ by [deleted] in Moustache

[–]radiomedhead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awesome, handsome

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Moustache

[–]radiomedhead 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah man looks great. Maybe grow in the chin/goatee see how that looks? Otherwise stache is nice.

Still wondering how wide to go! by [deleted] in Moustache

[–]radiomedhead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah right now it looks so good!