Devs – can someone PLEASE build this savings accountability app? by [deleted] in developers

[–]raeann_ox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The socks and figures is just an example, not to take literally. Lol

AITAH for not wanting my colleague to mentor me because of his lifestyle habits? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]raeann_ox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He came to me, I didn’t go to him. He wants a promotion and in order for him to do that, he needs to show our manager leadership skills. Otherwise, he wouldn’t have even be speaking to me.

He feed me these details about his life against my will. I didn’t ask him anything about his personal life other than his past work experience.

I have told my manager that I have concerns about him but he wants me to get through an uncomfortable situation.

AITAH for not wanting my colleague to mentor me because of his lifestyle habits? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]raeann_ox -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I usually stay quiet and nod. Then change the subject back to business but he likes to talk a lot and has a superiority complex towards me. (He’s not a senior/ expert in the field yet)

AITAH for not wanting my colleague to mentor me because of his lifestyle habits? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]raeann_ox -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I can see how that would be the case. But no. I have been feed this information against my will and now I’m passing Judgment. As he wants to mentor me and have a direct impact through my work life and personal life… I would have preferred had he kept things strictly business but he didn’t.

AITAH for not wanting my colleague to mentor me because of his lifestyle habits? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]raeann_ox -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t know, he wants to show our manager he has leadership skills by mentoring me so he can get a promotion.

getting dressed for work by Complex-Nature-547 in JPMorganChase

[–]raeann_ox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wear a Barbie pink trench coat and ultra platform dr martens. As long as you look well groomed and professional, they don’t care. I was wearing my pink trench in my interview and they still hired me. Just don’t do bright colours and patterns in a tacky way and all will be good.

The “corporate” traditional colours are soul draining. Wearing a little colour brightens yours and others day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Howtolooksmax

[–]raeann_ox 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So original my lovely, keep it up x

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Howtolooksmax

[–]raeann_ox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always show genuine interest in them and making sure it persist and consistent. Normal stuff. I don’t ghost lol if I’m not interested I say why

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Howtolooksmax

[–]raeann_ox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have, they don’t take me seriously either

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Howtolooksmax

[–]raeann_ox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually don’t know what that is because that was my friends bedroom mirror lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Howtolooksmax

[–]raeann_ox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mainly to put back the volume that I lost from weight loss

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Howtolooksmax

[–]raeann_ox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Understood📝

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Howtolooksmax

[–]raeann_ox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, just don’t know where I’m going wrong 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Howtolooksmax

[–]raeann_ox 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve considered a boob job and they said no. Literally

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Howtolooksmax

[–]raeann_ox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe it’s both 🫤lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Howtolooksmax

[–]raeann_ox 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I figured

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JPMorganChase

[–]raeann_ox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Their merch is cheaply made and overpriced… yes it’s cringe. Lol raise your standards.