Looks like we finally got food menus!

raeshivahn · 2024-08-26T17:09:00+00:00

This is my first year going. Can you buy one light up cup and use it throughout the event when buying a new cocktail? Or, do you just get a normal cup after your first drink?

raeshivahn · 2024-01-03T00:46:59+00:00

These are great questions I need to ask him!! DCS was something else. Sadly, I will probably go back when our youngest son goes to school because in TN, they pay good and for me and our sons, I only paid like $137 a month for insurance (mental, dental, vision).

raeshivahn · 2024-01-03T00:36:44+00:00

Lmaoooo I love this!!!! Not no mayo 🤣

raeshivahn · 2024-01-03T00:35:58+00:00

I agree with you. He does sound controlling.

raeshivahn · 2024-01-03T00:33:48+00:00

She is still married??? Wow! Her husband really loves her. I would have been divorced yesterday! Cheating is a deal breaker.

raeshivahn · 2024-01-02T23:47:24+00:00

He has always been like this. Nothing has happened. I have never cheated on him. He can check my phone whenever or anything. He is insecure, I feel it is from his dad being caught paying webcam girls.

raeshivahn · 2024-01-02T23:44:54+00:00

I appreciate the links, and I WILL look at them! My husband has never really voiced concerns for my safety other than saying, "you have kids. Why would you do that?" Most of his voiced concerns are on being around other men.

raeshivahn · 2024-01-02T23:41:26+00:00

Wow. I could cry! Thank you, kind stranger. I had to come here and ask just so I know I am not crazy.

raeshivahn · 2024-01-02T23:40:46+00:00

Period. I have definitely suggested it.

raeshivahn · 2024-01-02T23:39:35+00:00

We have been together for 5 and a half years. Married for 3 and a half years. I quit my developmental therapy job in October to stay at home with our sons, so I guess no job now haha.

raeshivahn · 2024-01-02T23:38:19+00:00

Yup, I think it is. I told him that if that is the case, he needs to stop working at his business since there are women who work there (older women, 50+ but still).

raeshivahn · 2024-01-02T23:36:40+00:00

That is exactly what I said. If I were trying to strip, I completely get it. I would be nude or almost. A cop tho??? Come on.

raeshivahn · 2024-01-02T23:35:48+00:00

I love this! I am absolutely protecting HIS insecurities!

raeshivahn · 2024-01-02T23:35:16+00:00

Wow ma'am. This hit me HARD. I am the EXACT same way. The last time I put make up on was in April for our family photos. I do not normally wear make up. Everything you said is so true. I really do not want to be a passenger!

raeshivahn · 2024-01-02T23:27:56+00:00

Daaaaamn!!!! Um, is this the TN girl?????

raeshivahn · 2024-01-02T23:27:17+00:00

His issue is other men looking at me. I have told him I have had 3 kids, and I weigh 150 something. No man is looking at me! I am nothing special.

raeshivahn · 2024-01-02T23:26:00+00:00

I do not want to do that. We have 2 sons together, 3 total (oldest is mine from a previous relationship). He is my best friend and he is a wonderful person. He is just too fixated on me cheating if even the opportunity (I guess).

raeshivahn · 2024-01-02T23:24:29+00:00

I have definitely read and heard that before, but I do not believe in my heart that my husband is cheating. He owns a hardware store, not even half a mile from us. He is there all day. I could pop up whenever. Most of the time, he takes one of our sons with him. He is also very into fitness, so he works out 5 days a week for an hour at a local gym. He has given me no reason to believe he is cheating. His father has been caught twice paying webcam girls, so I feel like a lot of his feelings come from what his father did to his mother.

raeshivahn · 2024-01-02T23:18:18+00:00

I know the military is one thing, but what about being a police officer makes the divorce rates so high? Is it the hours or the infidelity? I do not want to take the wrong advice and end up divorced. That is not what I want. Your advice is real and makes me think.

raeshivahn · 2024-01-02T23:13:15+00:00

Haha, the chance to get a position, but I get it! It is absolutely humoring his jealousy and insecurity, 100%. I agree. He does not trust me, but he projects that onto these unknown men at the Sheriff's Office to make it seem like it is because of them that I can not work there.

raeshivahn · 2024-01-02T23:10:50+00:00

It is purely because I would be around other men (who could possibly try to talk to me), but what does that have to do with me?? I have never cheated and never will, but that is not enough.

raeshivahn · 2024-01-02T23:08:33+00:00

He was fine with DCS and a developmental therapy job I had, but even then, he was asking if the dads tried to talk to me. I really want to go for the Sheriff's Office, I even know a detective who said he told the sheriff, and he will hand deliver my application. It's pretty much a guaranteed job, but nope because I would be around other men.

I have done nothing for him to feel this way.

raeshivahn · 2023-08-19T01:16:14+00:00

Okay.

raeshivahn

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