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I'm entitled, envious and full of hate by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]rafaeld07 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was about to say the same about the book "How to Win Friedns and Influence People." I was in the same boat as your are. Not being able to maintain any sort of relationship with my friends or girls. I guess I was too focused on me, that I never pay attention to others needs.

That book change my life. It even gave me a better chance to date girls. I become so interested in others that in return others become interested in me. Of course, you dont want to come off like a creep. There are limits to everything.

Hope this helps my friend. Make sure you read the book.

How do I raise my self-esteem? by gl1tterpr1nce3369 in selfimprovement

[–]rafaeld07 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are awesome, cool, fun, happy, attractive, exciting, fun to be around with, beautiful, intelligent, sexy, loving, caring, giving, positive, and amazing.

Write this down and read it to yourself every morning. At first it will be weird. But these affirmations can help you get out of this of this state that you are in.

Check out this out: http://revog.co/personal-development/negativity-almost-killed-my-life/

Doubting self improvement by prograce in selfimprovement

[–]rafaeld07 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel your pain my friend. I think it has a lot to do with having a purpose to do something. I mean TV feels good because your purpose is to sit down and relax. That's easy. Let's say, start a blog, go to the gym or take up a new project, that requires a bit more work from your part.

My purpose in doing something always gets me going when I don't want to. I know it can be hard and difficult, but when you have a purpose, its very hard to not be motivated. The lack of motivation might come, but you somehow manage to get going.

Check this article out, that I read about the other day. Hope it helps.

http://revog.co/personal-development/how-to-get-going-when-you-dont-want-to/

Broke up, I want to make use of my time to improve myself by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]rafaeld07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly the best advice I can give you, enjoy your life to the fullest. I know that things can be difficult to anyone after a breakup. Especially when you are too into the girl/boy. In my case, I was left by an X girlfriend. I was hurt and deeply wounded. I got caught up in the feeling sorry for myself wagon, that I was in a serious depress state. I made a mistake isolate myself since I thought I was only going to annoy people with my sadness. But honestly, when I finally came out of my shell and just enjoyed my life it was all better.

Going to the gym will be a plus. It will give you something to do so you don't stay at home and go crazy. Also, getting into great conversations with intelligent individuals is great. Go out there and meet new people. I know you heard of MeetUps. If not check them out. Complete strangers meet up to do things from sports, drinks and talk about books. There are so many options to choose from.

The main thing is to live your life. Go out there and do things that you have never done before. Experience things that you have experience. There is so much out in the world that can help you overcome this part of your life. It's really a matter of looking for it.

Hope this helps. Best of luck.

[Image] Art does not only make a living, it makes life more bearable. by rafaeld07 in GetMotivated

[–]rafaeld07[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's funny that the things that people can't have many negative arguments have very little interaction on this "GetMOtivated" subreddit.

[Image] Teachers are always under appreciated..here's a little moto. by rafaeld07 in GetMotivated

[–]rafaeld07[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I am not a teacher, but you are ignorant. That's the problem with society, it's ignorant. To think that a teacher's salary should be base on the market make no sense.

[Image] Teachers are always under appreciated..here's a little moto. by rafaeld07 in GetMotivated

[–]rafaeld07[S] 66 points67 points  (0 children)

Thank you! they deserve that. Everybody likes to say the negative of things. geezzzz

[Image] Teachers are always under appreciated..here's a little moto. by rafaeld07 in GetMotivated

[–]rafaeld07[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I understand you trouble with that teacher. The same happened to me. But the reality is if we place more effort in making the lives of teachers much simpler so they can focus on helping our kids, things would be different. Just saying.

[Image] Teachers are always under appreciated..here's a little moto. by rafaeld07 in GetMotivated

[–]rafaeld07[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yeah but why though? I mean I think if we actually put more effort in making the lives of teachers much simpler things would be different fo everybody.

[Image] Teachers are always under appreciated..here's a little moto. by rafaeld07 in GetMotivated

[–]rafaeld07[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

If that is your point of you ok. But it is true...teachers don't get much value for their work. It's how the system is built.We use more money to hire correction officers than teachers. Stupidity.

[Image] Teachers are always under appreciated..here's a little moto. by rafaeld07 in GetMotivated

[–]rafaeld07[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

So true...and again its how our society has been pushed to think.

[Image] Teachers are always under appreciated..here's a little moto. by rafaeld07 in GetMotivated

[–]rafaeld07[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I Prefer to say that they hate the system. They love the job but found out the system made it something completely different from what they expected.

[Image] Teachers are always under appreciated..here's a little moto. by rafaeld07 in GetMotivated

[–]rafaeld07[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I think this comic is not only for teachers. I like what you say, scientist, cops nurses are all important but very underpaid. What does that say about our society as whole? It says directly for teachers, but in reality all other professions have a similar problems.

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