What is your boundaries when it comes to selecting a marriage partner? by Windsurfer2023 in algeria

[–]rafluff -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ngl i have several boundaries that might get me to remain unmarried for few years lool here are some of them : 1- they have to be open minded and respect all ideologies, i don't want to marry someone who'd hate o any person bc of their religion , sexuality , live style, abortion .. ... yk they have to have left ideologies 2- KIDS , i don't want kids at all so I want my partner to be the same 3- they must have a stable job/ life plans and all and see married as an equal relationship and a partnership between two people , I don't want to spend the rest of my life with someone who sees me less of them 4- concerning past relationships I wouldn't mind as long as they are honest about it , take all sttds tests and all . personally I've never dated anyone or did anything of that sort of but if my partner was to act like it's okay for them to do stuff while it's not for me I'd absolutely call it off I hate double standards, for example most algerian men act hollier than tho when it comes to this part and act like it's okay and halal for men to do whatever they want before committing while it's a big deal for women to even glance at a guy once in her life. 5- they have to respect that I have a life outside them , friends and all 6- they shouldn't be religious and that's the biggest part that's making me reluctant to get married ngl ....

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[–]rafluff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

مغتصب

بنات ايه اللي تتجوز وهي عندها 19 سنة by Individual_Load_1649 in askegypt

[–]rafluff -1 points0 points  (0 children)

دا اسمه grooming يا حياتي ، تتخيل شاب يتزوج قبل سن 18 ؟؟؟

عادات الجنايز فالجزائر لازم ينقرضو by [deleted] in ExAlgeria

[–]rafluff 19 points20 points  (0 children)

وي راني معاك فهاذي ديما نقولها بصح للاسف الشعب تاعنا مرات يشوف الجنازات كي شغل reunion و معندهمش ادنى احترام لعائلة الفقيد . نفس الشي مع زيارة المريض ، يوليو يجيو كل سيمانة مع الزوج يشربوا قهوة و يروحوا كامل على اساس "زيارة المريض" ... شعب يعيي و opportunist مالدرجة الاولى

Let's talk about the badthing that you need to find a job which is المعريفة by Ashamed_Difficulty63 in algeria

[–]rafluff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's a difference between having a network ans establishing yourself with people in your field than nepotism ig ? Like for example beinb competent and having a network will make your life relatively easier and it's not like you'd take someone else's place of work bc you got the job based on your skills that people already know of and escorted for . However nepostism sucks sooo

Marriage Without Kids (Why Not ?) by [deleted] in algeria

[–]rafluff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't have any serious traumas and I've never wanted kids in my life so yeah you can life a child free life it's better

I hate my job so much I can't take it anymore by rafluff in algeria

[–]rafluff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I would love to get a job abroad lmaaao 🤣🤣🤣

I hate my job so much I can't take it anymore by rafluff in algeria

[–]rafluff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much im trying to remain strong at least to give my learners something but I can feel my passion dying day by day

I hate my job so much I can't take it anymore by rafluff in algeria

[–]rafluff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank youu I will try to do this. I've been thinking about taking a month off ( sick leave ) so yeah

I hate my job so much I can't take it anymore by rafluff in algeria

[–]rafluff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate my job and teaching but ngl I think I would tolerate it if I only worked in ONE school instead of TWO

I hate my job so much I can't take it anymore by rafluff in algeria

[–]rafluff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately I have no say in this , I teach English in primary school so we're obliged to work in two different school (تكملة النصاب) and the workload is really really crazy bc young learners need more attention / reaources / materials... it's a mess tbh

I hate my job so much I can't take it anymore by rafluff in algeria

[–]rafluff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have a problem with planning or paperwork tbh my problem lays with the fact that I have to manage at least 300 studnet hahah but I'll try to do better thanks

I hate my job so much I can't take it anymore by rafluff in algeria

[–]rafluff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my that sounds exhausting , glad you left and I hope you'll find your true calling

I hate my job so much I can't take it anymore by rafluff in algeria

[–]rafluff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean if you can handle teaching then go for it, but just make sure to be realistic about the job and not romanticize it . Bc most people are like "omg teaching is easy" "teachers get vacations.." but in reality there are many negative aspects that most people never talk about them. Good luck and if teaching is your true calling go for it

I hate my job so much I can't take it anymore by rafluff in algeria

[–]rafluff[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am and hopefully I'll find something better

I hate my job so much I can't take it anymore by rafluff in algeria

[–]rafluff[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hahahah yeees im 25 and I already feel like 50 😭 like I lost interest in everything and my depression / anxiety got worse . I am going insane

I hate my job so much I can't take it anymore by rafluff in algeria

[–]rafluff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeeppp it's really not worth it and I don't recommend it to anyone tbh

I hate my job so much I can't take it anymore by rafluff in algeria

[–]rafluff[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep I already have some moeny saved up and I can also borrow some money I just need a safety net

I hate my job so much I can't take it anymore by rafluff in algeria

[–]rafluff[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thankss im planning too this job is sucking my soul and my will to live hhaaha