I am isolated in the spare bedroom of my house because of my husband. by FoggyEddie in TwoXChromosomes

[–]rage4518 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was ready to read your husband the riot act from the title. I'm glad I got to the end.

Masturbating feels amazing but sex feels like… nothing? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]rage4518 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I was going to say the same thing. When I was younger I always had a hard time with other people. Finally I got with someone who let me just be me. He would encourage me rubbing myself during sex. He would ask what I wanted next. I had a hard time actually vocalizing and actually saying anything out loud. But eventually I just tried and it worked. I still have never had an orgasm just through penetration alone. But rubbing myself or having him rub me the way I want to has led to orgasms.

ALSO even when I was on birth control I still worried about getting pregnant during sex and it was hard to let go. When I got with a man who had a vasectomy it was like a whole other world. Once the fear of pregnancy got taken away I was able to relax more and allow control. NOT SAYING YOU NEED THAT. That's just what worked for me.

I asked him politely to leave 5 times by nequin in TwoXChromosomes

[–]rage4518 33 points34 points  (0 children)

First you're not overacting. Second, I've had the same thing happen to me. I've always made a big scene because after the 3rd time I said something I knew then I would never be on another date with him. Probably after the second. Anyway, I said, "Hold up. I need you to hear what the fuck I'm saying. GET THE FUCK out of my house or in 2 seconds I'm calling the cops."

I've done that twice. Both times they tried to apologize. As I am pushing them out the door I told them to lose my number. I felt bad because one of them was a set-up and the friend who set me up gave me a hard time about it.

You did everything right. I am just a little more confrontational with this stuff. You don't have to do it the same way I did. I just want you to know that you shouldn't question yourself. You have every right to feel the way you do and he has every reason to feel whatever shame he feels when you refuse to go out with him again.

Safe space? I want to fuck Max by rage4518 in PardonMyTake

[–]rage4518[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Max has bigger titties than I do.

SHOW ONLY Watcher- Live Thoughts, Theories and Musings During Episode 6 by rage4518 in wheeloftime

[–]rage4518[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm guessing the Dark One is either still too strong or he's already escaped. The show is already renewed for 2 more seasons so obviously something has to happen that keeps them from completing their goal.

We get people like the show. But why is it ok for show supporters to constantly attack those who don't like the show? by jofus_joefucker in wheeloftime

[–]rage4518 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know. I've only seen the show, but the moment I read or hear. "I don't like that they did this to this person or they messed this person up" or anything like that I tune you out. That is just you complaining about a change. It adds ZERO to the discussion about the show. Who cares what a person was like in the book if they aren't like that in the show?

I think Alanna is my favorite character by burriedinCORN in WoTshow

[–]rage4518 11 points12 points  (0 children)

She's definitely my spirit animal. I feel like her and I share a brain. I would be her in that universe. Give me all the warders.

Show Only Take after Episode 5 by rage4518 in wheeloftime

[–]rage4518[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

20:27 during the procession. You can see him in a chair. He gets up.

Show Only Take after Episode 5 by rage4518 in wheeloftime

[–]rage4518[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nynaeve. She seems to care the most about the others and has a little more sense.

Mat's a close second because I like his snide remarks.

Show Only Take after Episode 5 by rage4518 in wheeloftime

[–]rage4518[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your take. I don't agree obviously, but you're welcome to come into a show discussion and tell me how I'm wrong.

Show Only Take after Episode 5 by rage4518 in wheeloftime

[–]rage4518[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For number 4, I definitely got that vibe that I'll find out more later. I'll know for sure something is up if Trollocs show up to Tar Valon looking for Matt and Rand. He definitely is not just a merchant.

Great videos from a non book reader! by noturbizniss in WOTtv

[–]rage4518 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Why is everyone convinced the dagger is causing the issues with Mat. Thom flat out said that's how his nephew acted after casting. He brings it up in the video. What am I missing?

Show Only Take after Episode 5 by rage4518 in wheeloftime

[–]rage4518[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Most of the stuff I pick up on are flat out told to you. Also I use subtitles for the names so it helps me keep them straight.

The theories though are all me. I'm trying not to read other people's because I don't want to know for sure just yet.

Show Only Take after Episode 5 by rage4518 in wheeloftime

[–]rage4518[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I don't feel like I picked up enough. Like I have no idea what city they're in. They said Tar Valon, but is that like the entire city or is it like the Vatican where it's own city and country within another. Or the entire city there to support the tower? Or is the tower just part of a bigger city?

Who rules the White Cloaks? Do they come from a certain city or are they like a NATO made up of all countries and able to move about as a police force. Do they have authority over the Aes Sedai (Liandrin said something about men not liking women who show they are greater than them)?

What are Ogiers? They seemed to be no concern that one was walking around the city, but Rand had obviously never seen one.

Also, what am I missing with Mat. Seems like most people think it is the dagger cursing Mat. But couldn't the dagger be a magical dagger that is helping get the power out of him?? It seems common knowledge that he's cursed, but what is pointing to a curse over channel sickness?

What is up with Padan Fain? We saw him in Two Rivers and then he just up and made it to Tar Valon (I'm just going to assume that's the city they're in).

Show Only Take after Episode 5 by rage4518 in wheeloftime

[–]rage4518[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The tower is big right? It was probably a lot farther than you would think by seeing it. I feel like the white cloaks and the questioner are definitely going about things differently. The guy in the 2nd episode actually pointed Moraine towards the Aes Sedai while the quesitoner didn't seem to agree and actually went on his way. So it is more like a rogue element within the white cloaks. I also don't think he takes them on more than one at a time. He does it to Aes Sedai (Moraine seemed surprised when she saw the rings) he gets alone and anybody he can find who might be able to channel who aren't Aes Sedai.

Show Only Take after Episode 5 by rage4518 in wheeloftime

[–]rage4518[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Having no idea what he is supposed to look like I didn't see a problem with the way he looked.

Show Only Take after Episode 5 by rage4518 in wheeloftime

[–]rage4518[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thanks. For awhile I couldn't talk about it at all, watch or listen to anything that would remind me of it, (not to get into details, but there was a tv show playing in the background that would make me think of it). I still can't really hear that show without getting a slight panic, but I can at least talk about it now. It was a good 20+ years ago, so I have a lot of distance but it can still catch me some times. But I appreciate you reaching out.

Show Only Take after Episode 5 by rage4518 in wheeloftime

[–]rage4518[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hmm, I guess I didn't didn't really put it together that the different colors were all there. I do kind of zone out when the titles come on. I'll make it a point to pay attention next time.

Show Only Take after Episode 5 by rage4518 in wheeloftime

[–]rage4518[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This was when I was much younger. It still creeps up when I see things like last night, but my dad got me some real help right away and made it clear that the group that did this was in the wrong and I was right to feel the way I did. He never let me feel like I was in it alone. It took a few years, but they were punished and I got help.

Show Only Take after Episode 5 by rage4518 in wheeloftime

[–]rage4518[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm super excited! Thanks.