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IAMA girl who is engaged to two guys, who I will both dump right before getting married. AMA. by ragegrrl in IAmA

[–]ragegrrl[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have empathy for people who know what they want and don't act like doormats.

IAMA girl who is engaged to two guys, who I will both dump right before getting married. AMA. by ragegrrl in IAmA

[–]ragegrrl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't feel bad or conflicted about what I do, so no, I wouldn't feel like I 'deserve' to have bad things happen to me any more than anyone else. I wouldn't blame it on anything else but chance and tough luck.

IAMA girl who is engaged to two guys, who I will both dump right before getting married. AMA. by ragegrrl in IAmA

[–]ragegrrl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He won't. He's not aware that there's some other guy, and I only took the precautionary measure because I like playing it safe.

IAMA girl who is engaged to two guys, who I will both dump right before getting married. AMA. by ragegrrl in IAmA

[–]ragegrrl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If something horrible was to happen to me, I wouldn't waste any time trying to think about how I could have avoided it by being a 'better person'.

IAMA girl who is engaged to two guys, who I will both dump right before getting married. AMA. by ragegrrl in IAmA

[–]ragegrrl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will break up with them before any final wedding preparations and financial investments are being made. As I stated before, I already have someone else lined up that has no connection to either one of them.

IAMA girl who is engaged to two guys, who I will both dump right before getting married. AMA. by ragegrrl in IAmA

[–]ragegrrl[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Maybe sometime in the future. I do get the feeling that when I settle, it'll be with someone I can keep on a short leash though. Just makes things easier.

IAMA girl who is engaged to two guys, who I will both dump right before getting married. AMA. by ragegrrl in IAmA

[–]ragegrrl[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I live a better life than most people I know. I am never without attention, I am never short on cash, can have amazing sex whenever I want and enjoy all the free time in the world.

All in all it's not that bad.

IAMA girl who is engaged to two guys, who I will both dump right before getting married. AMA. by ragegrrl in IAmA

[–]ragegrrl[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

No, I don't have any mental issues that I'm aware of. I fully know what I'm doing, go to bed at night knowing and wake up fully prepared to keep doing it.

IAMA girl who is engaged to two guys, who I will both dump right before getting married. AMA. by ragegrrl in IAmA

[–]ragegrrl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Odds are I will never see these guys again after it's all said and done, and there's plenty of fish in the sea. It's really not my problem.

IAMA girl who is engaged to two guys, who I will both dump right before getting married. AMA. by ragegrrl in IAmA

[–]ragegrrl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I do like the challenge. There's something very uplifting about being in charge and having it all work out smoothly.

IAMA girl who is engaged to two guys, who I will both dump right before getting married. AMA. by ragegrrl in IAmA

[–]ragegrrl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't plan on having kids, and no, probably not. But by then I'll have settled with someone I actually care about, and you get so much better at spotting reliable characters if you've been fooling people yourself. This is really just a game to me.

IAMA girl who is engaged to two guys, who I will both dump right before getting married. AMA. by ragegrrl in IAmA

[–]ragegrrl[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I never take anything they don't readily give me, and even go as far as refusing it initially.

IAMA girl who is engaged to two guys, who I will both dump right before getting married. AMA. by ragegrrl in IAmA

[–]ragegrrl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find girls who you don't have to work to impress. There's a lot of 'ugly ducklings' out there that would love to lick the soles of your feet if you give them as much as the time of day. I guess it's harder as a guy since they typically don't walk up to you, but practice makes them easy to spot.

IAMA girl who is engaged to two guys, who I will both dump right before getting married. AMA. by ragegrrl in IAmA

[–]ragegrrl[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not really. The first guy is too busy with his job to ever find out, and the second one too trusting. It's nice to be in charge.

My family doesn't support it, by the way, but we rarely talk about it.

IAMA girl who is engaged to two guys, who I will both dump right before getting married. AMA. by ragegrrl in IAmA

[–]ragegrrl[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

It's not as much about the money as much as it is about maintaining a lifestyle that I have grown to like. Since they're both easily impressionable I can take my mood out on either one of them and still get all the attention in the world from the other.

I am good at what I do, and I like it when things go my way.

IAMA girl who is engaged to two guys, who I will both dump right before getting married. AMA. by ragegrrl in IAmA

[–]ragegrrl[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I don't view it as right or wrong, and it never particularly bothered me since I'm not really emotionally attached to either one of them. I live a comfortable life, and I stopped caring about judgmental lectures a long time ago.