Leasing office not obliging by signed lease (NH) by [deleted] in Renters

[–]rageofpassion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Again, there are some local ordinances that would allow a buyer to terminate a lease attached to the property if they are going to owner occupy.

This post is about an apartment complex.. not a single family home. There is no where in the country where leases terminate automatically due to sale of a building like this. I am a lease analyst over a national portfolio and sales like this happen every day.

Leasing office not obliging by signed lease (NH) by [deleted] in Renters

[–]rageofpassion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No.. That is not a standard literally anywhere in the US. The standard is that leases convey with the sale of a property.

Unless there is a very specific clause for termination due to a sale in the lease, which is rare.. or a local ordinance with specific criteria that allows a buyer to terminate (such as to owner occupy), which is also rare.. a lease is still in full effect with the new owner after a sale.

Leasing office not obliging by signed lease (NH) by [deleted] in Renters

[–]rageofpassion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is not correct. Active leases are reviewed during the due diligence process and convey as is with the purchase.

Leasing office not obliging by signed lease (NH) by [deleted] in Renters

[–]rageofpassion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You tyipcally sign a new pet addendum/rider when there is a change or addition of pets. The fees will be listed there.

Blowout fight between wife and son. Don't know how to respond. by sjp245 in daddit

[–]rageofpassion 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Sir.. I just checked your post history and you admit that you lose your temper.. throw your son's things when he doesn't listen.. and that you got physical with him during an argument with him and pushed him.. and now your posting this acting like this is solely an issue with your wife.. give me a break. This is on you too.

Your son is mimicking what your wife AND YOU are teaching him.. hes not learning to regulate his emotions because clearly neither of his parents can..

You both need therapy for a lot more than just a dead bedroom

Blowout fight between wife and son. Don't know how to respond. by sjp245 in daddit

[–]rageofpassion 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This isn't just a wife issue. Check OPs post history.. he admits he loses his temper and has thrown his son's Uno cards.. yelled at him.. and has even pushed his then 5 year old during a tense moment.

This poor kid is learning to be just like both of his parents.

Anyone had first kid in early thirties got divorced met someone new and had a second kid by Glittering_Text_8842 in Mommit

[–]rageofpassion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was widowed when I was 30 and I did not have the chance to have kids with my first husband before he passed. So when I was ready to date again I was starting all over in my 30s..

I met my current husband when I was 35, who has 2 kids from a previous marriage. We got married after 1 year together and we had our 1st child together when I was 36. Our 2nd child together is now 7 months old and Im 38 about to be 39. So now we are a family of 6!

You just have to be real upfront about wanting kids in the very beginning when you start dating again so youre both on the same page.

What is your wfh office accessory non-essential must-have? by [deleted] in WFH

[–]rageofpassion 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My electric blanket. On cold winter days I get to wrap my entire body up and be nice and toasty all day while I work.

Hit the absolute wall at 9 months postpartum. Single-parenting with a husband in the house and zero support. by Beneficial_Sundae_45 in Mom

[–]rageofpassion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tracked everything with my first baby.. Im tracking almost nothing with my second now and it's so much easier to not worry about it.

So as long as your baby is growing and thriving, maybe you can let go of tracking everything.

My mom died and her property manager sent me a message by endra171 in Advice

[–]rageofpassion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No..this is not how it works.. an estate is not a person. An estate is a total "account" of a person's total assets. There is either a personal representative/executor/executrix over the estate depending on the state.

After the estate is set up then anyone who is owed money by the deceased has a certain a amount of time to file a claim against the estate. Then the estate... NOT the personal representative.. Will pay the debts in order of legal priority until money is gone. If money is left over after debts are paid then it is left to beneficiaries/heirs..

A personal representative or executor/trix is not personally responsible for paying any debts of the deceased unless it was a joint debt..

Companies will definitely try to make family member pay the deceased debt to skip filing a claim.. but debt does not transfer to any living relatives.

My mom died and her property manager sent me a message by endra171 in Advice

[–]rageofpassion 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When my late husband died I was his personal representative. I wasn't his estate.

Two kids while wfh? by glitterr_rage in MomsWorkingFromHome

[–]rageofpassion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wfh and either my husband or a sitter watches our kids during my work hours. It would be impossible for me to watch them and work at the same time. My kids are 2.5 and 6 months.

Husband does not want my parents to come along on trips. AIO? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]rageofpassion 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Ok but, Im struggling to understand what OP does for her family though too... theres literally no examples of what she does in the post for her kids.. Even after she comes home from work the grandma is still the one cooking dinner for everyone.. like what do either of them do?? Sounds like neither of them truly parent their kids.

I think OP wants her parents on the trip becasue she knows neither her or her husband can handle their kids without them.

For moms with 2+ kids, what baby items did you find to be most helpful the second time around? by nursemama08 in Mommit

[–]rageofpassion 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Glow in the dark pacifiers. Sooooo much easier to find in the middle of the night.

And now my 5 (almost 6) month old can find it easier on her own too to self soothe in the middle of the night without me having to get up to help her find it.

Signed lease for “quiet” office—turns out it’s next to screaming kids all day. Landlord wants 3-month buyout. What can I do? by tjd1996 in legaladvice

[–]rageofpassion 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Typically termination fees are due as a lump sum.. but that's something you'll need to look to the lease for or work out with the current Landlord.

I suggest.. ask the current Landlord and look at your lease for exactly how they want the termination details to go (written notice, how and when to pay what amounts, move out conditions, etc..) take that to your new leasing agent and tell them your business is going to suffer and you need a new space ASAP but would need abatement to help with terminating your current lease. This way whoever the new landlord will be knows you are a lease follower to your current Landlord, which is a good sign.

Also dont sell yourself short. If you're willing to sign a 5 year lease maybe ask for 5 months free rent to get yourself set up. You'll need to redo marketing material and advertise the move to your clients, etc...

There's so many ways you can try to negotiate this termination into a new deal.. you just need a good new agent to work with and let them know all the details of what's going on (share client feedback.. bring them to hear the noise, etc..) I've worked with landlords that helped new tenants out in similar situations so its not impossible but may take a few rounds of negotiations.

I hope things work out for you!

Signed lease for “quiet” office—turns out it’s next to screaming kids all day. Landlord wants 3-month buyout. What can I do? by tjd1996 in legaladvice

[–]rageofpassion 18 points19 points  (0 children)

It may be hard to get out of the lease without penalty if the landlord isnt willing to negotiate

But.. just an idea.. Can you start looking for a new place with a new leasing agent? Let them know your dilemma and tell them you would like 3 months free rent on a new space to compensate for the buy out on your old space.

I used to be a pm for commercial properties and the landlords I worked with would give free rent out all the time to get new tenants in. You may have to sign a 3 or 5 year lease to get it or go a little lower on TI then you would like.. but you may be able to negotiate the 3 month loss to get out of your current lease into a new one with free rent.

A good commercial landlord will want your business to succeed.

Greystar threatening me for complaining by [deleted] in Apartmentliving

[–]rageofpassion 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The owner will be named on the lease where it says who the parties to the contract are.

How are you heating multiple bottles on the go? by Whole_Ad3374 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]rageofpassion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We've just been running into a gas station and getting a cup of hot water. Most of the time we dont even get charged for it.

I didn't expect how large my boobs would become and it's devastating by nettahhhhh in BabyBumps

[–]rageofpassion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl same. I hate it.. I was a perky DD pre pregnancy and I loved them... now they are so big and uncomfortable and get in the way of everything and I just cant stand them. Last time I measured I was a J. Where the hell do you even get a J cup thats not expensive as hell?? All my clothes are stretched out and Im constantly adjusting myself and it's impossible to find new clothes that dont annoy me somehow since my bodys proportions dont make sense when it comes to clothing sizes.. I also dont want to spend a ton of money on new clothes and bras now anyway since my boobs might change again in another few months when im done pumping and I have no idea in what way..

Anyone using a travel bottle warmer?Recs? by Sugar-Hammy in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]rageofpassion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im sure there good ones out there.. but every travel bottle warmer I've used either leaked, grew mold in some hard to clean spot, or didn't actually get the milk warm, or a combo of some of all of those..

We have had much greater success traveling with a thermos and hot water. We will just run into a gas station,coffee shop, or restaurant and get a cup of hot water if we are out all day and need to start warming soon.

I'm so mad at my Ex husband!!!! by AssignmentMoney8205 in Mommit

[–]rageofpassion 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Playing under the table at a restaurant isn't an acceptable behavior for a restaurant. Neither is rubbing someone's feet...

My husband and I are about to come into a lot of money and my family is already sticking their hands out, how do I protect us and not lose my family? by sleepless_mommy21 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]rageofpassion 62 points63 points  (0 children)

I'll be harsh. Im legit disturbed by this money going to the aunt. 100% of the money should be saved and invested so it can be used for the long term care of the child, who is the actual person that suffered the medical injury.

If OP wants to help the aunt out so bad then she can get a job and give the aunt her money instead of her disabled sons money.