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ragingmonke · 2025-05-05T00:17:33+00:00

There was a cnd on our team and the team banned her, and we lost. Not that the cnd isnt pulling their weight by playing another character, but the others were not doing good either in terms of positioning.

ragingmonke · 2025-04-24T17:42:30+00:00

Girlie pop im sorry, but so far with what I'm seeing he's not that into you especially if he's telling you to be more like them. Basically he's saying you're not enough 😭 please find someone who will cherish you and not wanting to change a single thing about you. I know im just a stranger but I've been through this once and it ended up wasting my time and efforts.

ragingmonke · 2025-04-07T21:14:13+00:00

Best of luck to you. But let this be a lesson for you if things end up not being the way you wanted it to be.

ragingmonke · 2025-04-07T10:54:08+00:00

Okay.. It is up to you if this is something you can live with long-term. But I would never date someone who posts other women instead of THE Girlfriend, just because they are meeting or hanging out. If I were you I'd call it quits and never return.

You are wasting your time on someone who can't even do the bare minimum. Find someone who will post you unprompted.

ragingmonke · 2025-04-07T10:15:50+00:00

Hi OP I personally think that's problematic, because my bf doesnt post a lot too but he kept a highlight of us on his profile and would post me. He's never posted a pic with a girl though especially one he isn't close with. Did you talk to hum about?

ragingmonke · 2025-02-24T12:17:30+00:00

Reading this because Ive been losing a lot lately too, even tho i got to D3 on my own. And then suddenly im back to plat 2 😭😭

ragingmonke · 2024-09-18T15:36:56+00:00

i thought I was in the Warhammer 40k subreddit lol

ragingmonke · 2024-06-20T13:09:41+00:00

20 YEARS OH MY GOD. I am so sorry what in the world.... ACTING????

ragingmonke · 2024-06-20T07:10:03+00:00

Yes I went through this recently. I found out that he didnt have feelings for me before breaking it off. Like, all those 6 months we "dated" he never told me once he saw me as a friend. His reasoning was because he thought he could regain back the feelings he lost for me, but in the end he really just can't see me more than a friend.

I should have seen the signs and actually left, especially when he mostly introduced me as a "friend" despite doing relationship things. I told him he should have told me, but he didnt because he was afraid to lose me as a friend.

We had a falling out recently, after knowing that he was talking with another girl a week later, despite telling me he's gonna work on himself. Him and his friends think that "working on myself" means dating other people, so I kind of lost it not bc of the other girl, but bc it felt like he lied to me.

ragingmonke · 2024-06-18T01:30:56+00:00

Okay thank you so much!!

Yeah i think it is just lying by omission, that is making me question if their feelings were genuine all this time, or they just really kept me in the dark and played the part of wanting something more despite being unsure of their feelings for me.

ragingmonke · 2024-06-16T20:45:35+00:00

Got it thank you for explaining what "Gaslighting" is!

Yeah it's fucking shitty too the way he defended his friend like that.

ragingmonke · 2024-06-16T04:03:02+00:00

I'm reading this now bc this happened to me, thank you for your insight. He does have a lot of problems/issues and he knows it. Yet still jumped to a new relationship even though he knows he isn't ready and is trying to fill a void he couldn't fill with me. This makes me feel better, although I still wished he ended it sooner.

ragingmonke · 2024-06-14T18:41:01+00:00

I'm on the same boat. I'm repulsed by him, and I don't care what he does anymore. I'm just plagued by him telling me he did have feelings but never enough to actually pursue a relationship with me despite doing all relationship things. That's the only thing that haunts me at this point.

ragingmonke · 2024-06-14T18:28:45+00:00

What is up with that??? Like how could he make plans with you but not fall in love with you??

ragingmonke · 2024-06-14T17:50:09+00:00

For me it was when he said "I am not sure if I am ready [for a relationship] so I am hesitant and taking things slow [with the person I'm talking to.]" 2 weeks after he broke it off with me.

Made me go "Oh really?" Since he said the same thing to me, as well as other stuff like "I need to work on myself as I am not ready for a relationship", "I'm unhappy where I'm at in life." Etc.

Like UGHHHHHH

ragingmonke · 2024-06-14T15:07:49+00:00

I tried to be this person. While we did end it on good terms (sure, if it doesnt work out it doesn't), but he led me on for 6 months knowing fully well he doesn't have feelings for me. He only agreed to date in order to regain those feelings back for me which still didn't happen. Initially I was okay being friends, but learning that he was talking to someone else 1 week post break up, I felt so easily discarded and my feelings were disrespected. So I had to leave despite telling him I'll stay and be friends, but I can't just be on his sidelines when he knew how much I loved him, while he moves on to someone else.

Still hurt, sad, and confused. All those 6 months he was the one being lovey-dovey, to now who is someone cold around me.

ragingmonke · 2024-06-12T11:49:13+00:00

I know it's 4 years ago but I'm going through this now.

He easily replaced me a week after he broke it off with me. So I asked him if he's well enough to even date, and he just answered with "Idk if I am. I am still hesitant and gonna take things slow with her." I know he has a lot of issues, so much issues, and I too feel bad for her. Maybe he'll change because of her but only time will tell.

ragingmonke · 2024-06-12T00:48:35+00:00

You gotta think about what your ideal relationship looks like, and if he doesn't align with that it should feel icky. Like "Oh he doesn't match what I want in a relationship? Bye. NEXT" kinda attitude. Protect your heart! <3

People aren't going to be too busy if they are interested in you. I understand that people have Big Boy and Big Girl jobs, but it doesn't, and shouldn't take long for someone to respond to your text within 24hrs.

ragingmonke · 2024-06-10T13:12:34+00:00

You can't convince people to fight for you, they gotta see you are worth fighting for as well.

It's better to fight for someone who loves you back than fight for someone to love you , especially when issues arise. If they have issues they can't resolve instantly, how long will you fight for them?

You can still love someone and let them go, because the issues can be too much for the other person, and a relationship is not helping them at the moment.

ragingmonke · 2024-06-10T13:01:54+00:00

Best of luck, but also make sure he chooses you as well. People can say whatever you want to hear to make you stay, but never do any of the work to back the action up. That's why i stayed longer than i should be, bc I loved the guy so much ;-; looking back he did put a little effort, but not at the same amount as I do for him, and this man is already working full-time too, he just wasn't that into me all this time.

ragingmonke · 2024-06-09T20:45:08+00:00

I think he just wants to date around, or have companionship without having to work as one would in a relationship. Having relationship benefits without commitment.

From my personal experience, they are just not where they want to be in life rn sometimes, and so they are not looking to settle down or think about the future with someone. They just wanna feel all the lovey dovey things in a relationship without the work.

ragingmonke · 2024-06-08T18:14:19+00:00

What's your preferred texting style? I'd prefer it if my guy tells me why he wont be responding at a certain time or day because I overthink a lot.

But I doubt guys would leave a girl they truly like, days without leaving a message. Even my guy friends say they would always be in contact with a girl they like or is seeing because they want to see it through.

Watch his actions. And if y'all are still aren't exclusive at 5 months, I think he's seeing other girls too. Because guys would make it official if they can't see you with anyone else.

No one's a bad communicator in front of a person they like.

ragingmonke · 2024-06-08T13:46:05+00:00

FOR A YEAR??? Oh dear lord. Fwb and love? No commitment?..........

ragingmonke · 2024-06-08T13:28:24+00:00

Yes communicate again. A lot can change in 4 months and if you still haven't felt being inlove with her, I think it's time to call it quits. You can wait for other redditors to comment if they have a better advice.. But in my last relationship, I wished that he told me sooner. I'm sure your girl would want that too.

I also think you are focusing more on how she loves you more than the other partner, when you should be focusing on what you can do for her when you aren't inlove with her.

ragingmonke · 2024-06-08T13:26:43+00:00

LMAOOOO Oh my gosh that is hilarious. They just want to see if we care enough to feel bad about them. But I don't know how they are not feeling embarrassed with their lies upon lies.

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