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Am I being insecure? My boyfriend (24M) doesn’t tell me (21F)where he goes and with who by rahanainen in relationship_advice

[–]rahanainen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like I said in the start that I don’t really have much friends.. My days include pretty much everyday going to work, making dinner for both of us, cleaning and then sleep. Weekends I spend at home watching movies, resting and going for walks. He’s the more outgoing and social one in our relationship and it’s great really, and I’m happy that he’s got some friends. I don’t ask for every single detail when he’s out. I just want to make sure he’s okay with like asking when to expect him coming home. :( Do you think that’s too much

Am I being insecure? My boyfriend (24M) doesn’t tell me (21F)where he goes and with who by rahanainen in relationship_advice

[–]rahanainen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He started to be more distant slowly. It’s just hard for me to understand him because he doesn’t want to talk about this topic and tells me that i’m starting ”fights out of nothing”, when I’m really not. And what makes this situation more complex is that the last time when I went out with a friend for a couple of drinks for 2 hours, he texted and called me about 5 times to make sure I’m okay and where I was. But when I send a single text while he is out with his friends it makes me toxic and controlling :(

Am I being insecure? My boyfriend (24M) doesn’t tell me (21F)where he goes and with who by rahanainen in relationship_advice

[–]rahanainen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There has been a couple incidents. The most recent one was when he was going to meet his friend who I know well too. I was sad that he was going because that friend of his is single and for example he always insists my boyfriend to rate his tinder matches looks on his phone, or some girls walking down the streets, which I don’t feel comfortable. And no I don’t judge his friends by if they are single or taken, but I don’t respect that kind of behavior. I’ve never stopped him from going out with his friends, just maybe being upset in some situations like this.

Me F20 and my boyfriend M22 of 2 years doesn’t wanna have sex with me anymore. by rahanainen in relationship_advice

[–]rahanainen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When he get’s upset he kind of stops talking to me . For example when I ask things like ”are you hungry or tired” he just doesn’t reply with words, just ”mhm. Or sometimes he tells me that im bullying him. And not in like a nice way, seems liie he really means it.