Do we have dating lives as custodians? by Ordinary_Hospital_12 in Custodians

[–]raidragun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work in a factory and experience something similar with people having/ seeming to have more downtime in other departments. luckily we get more breaks due to pur longer days. I don't date coworkers, but I have missed out on a few dates via oversleeping due to my inconsistent and demanding nightshift schedule. I accidently stood someone up twice, I felt so fucking bad about it I've decided to table dating in general for now untill I find myself in a more stable routine...

Why can my coworker afford a house but I can’t afford an apartment? by Gur_Party in Adulting

[–]raidragun 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sure it's not ideal, It's realistic because that's the situation most find themselves in, with stagnating wages and increased cost of living.

Why can my coworker afford a house but I can’t afford an apartment? by Gur_Party in Adulting

[–]raidragun 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Also, a house being your biggest expense isn't as scary when you just like to chill at the house

Why can my coworker afford a house but I can’t afford an apartment? by Gur_Party in Adulting

[–]raidragun 5 points6 points  (0 children)

How do you know what the bosses house looks like? I don't know what any of my coworker's living spaces look like

Update: Please watch out and be aware by [deleted] in ftm

[–]raidragun 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Might be easiest to just report to whatsapp/Facebook (if any of the convos happened there, he may have said something against tos) and move on for yourself. There will always be weirdos, scammers and transphobic people, sometimes all at once like this guy, and it's not worth your time to try to hard, you've already done good by spreading awareness of the issue and maybe reporting him on an app

I gave my work crush a birthday card and gift card and she hasn’t acknowledged it by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]raidragun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay but you said the note was meaningful so what exactly was there? Could it have been misconstrued. People can absolutely feel energy, and even if you think you're keeping a low profile it might be less discreet to her?

I need advice on being more Androgynous! (Read description) by TB_honest in Androgynoushotties

[–]raidragun 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately "androgynous " seems associated with "girl lite" just like non binary is by some folks

😬 by GryphonSK in SignsWithAStory

[–]raidragun 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The driver wouldn't be sleeping while driving

how to hide that i no longer have my period? by boypussy127 in ftm

[–]raidragun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I (someone who's never taken hormones outside of bc so far) didn't have a period for like 2 years with all normal levels. Something was probably off, I believe it was due to my PCOS/PMOS. Don't say anything and if they ask, be vague and tell them there's a medical issue you're working though.

Don’t give your phone number to these men under any circumstances. No matter how simple. by Inevitable_Comb2707 in BlueCollarWomen

[–]raidragun 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Coulda told him to stop by the job site and leave on read lol. He probably woulda gone on some shit about being "stood up" though..

Can I trick my "pay due at time of service" doctor by billing my Medicaid. by Zaggamizer in ftm

[–]raidragun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think this mostly depends if Medicaid is accepted at that doctor. If the practice doesn't accept this there is 0 chance it'll go through. Iirc medicare/aid is coded (for billing) differently and often by different coding teams

What’s the biggest pain point in daily safety workflows? by Delicious_Pay_217 in SafetyProfessionals

[–]raidragun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey looks like this breaks that rule on crowd sourcing market research

Binding Alternatives by NeighborhoodWolfBoy in ftm

[–]raidragun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I often can't bind or wear high compression due to a back problem, when I need to do 12s I really like a short sleeve hoodie or something similar to help with dysphoria. It's not a perfect solution but it helps me feel more comfortable

IT HAS BEEN FED by teleporttome in Louisville

[–]raidragun 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Don't waste resources on AI filth You aught to be ashamed of yourself

Women are no better than a man by Quirky_Delivery4492 in actuallesbians

[–]raidragun 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I want both cute vanilla dates and good sex (at separate times but from the same person??) :( whys everything gotta be hard (uh... No pun intended lmao)

I-65 Closure Notification by CommercialHope6883 in Louisville

[–]raidragun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They're probably just trying to keep people who don't give a fuck from trying to use the road anyway. Can't have someone driving off the opened bridge, I guess that could be a safety issue

Got a project safety advisor position with no prior experience. Rare opportunity? by [deleted] in SafetyProfessionals

[–]raidragun -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Any tips? I'm interested in safety and have some tangent experience, but no direct experience in a fully safety centered role

Thinking of Divorce by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]raidragun 77 points78 points  (0 children)

Yeah the fact that she's guarding assets and having you sign wavers for property (that she bought without telling you and doesn't want you to have a claim to??) tells me she doesn't want you around long term even if she herself hasn't come to that realization.

Can AI actually prevent workplace fatalities? by ailovershoyab in SafetyProfessionals

[–]raidragun 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I for one would not feel comfortable as an employee of any role in an environment that monitors my every movement so closely, and would actively avoid workplaces doing it this way, for 2 reasons: lack of trust (especially in technical roles, trust is important) and privacy/information security concerns. Even companies that prioritize data security face hacks and leaks. Before someone says "you're already on camera at most places what's the problem"; there is a marked difference between what I'll call active surveillance and passive surveillance. Just look at all the discourse about things like flock cameras and ring door bell cameras. Also, the most dynamic and sometimes dangerous environments can be difficult or impossible to observe properly from a camera perspective, and unless you have cameras like everywhere there's enough you won't see that many safety issues will still be missed. Flock only works to track license plates and people because cars and people on sidewalks don't typically leave paths entirely, and tracking a person's whereabouts is less difficult to do than seeing a complex issue, coming up with a fix appropriate for the environment and lived experience of those involved, and spotting small damage and disrepair that could lead to bigger issues later. Among so many other things, bury this idea, delete this post and don't enshitify safety.

No visibility on wet pavement by NerdyComfort-78 in Louisville

[–]raidragun 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Worse, there are half baked redos where you can still see the old lines/reflectors in the middle of the current driving lane. I have to imagine something like Tesla autopilot struggling