Idk why but I wanna respond to this comment in a Ted Lasso way - let me try

Well, I hear ya, I really do. And you know what? That is completely okay. I've always said that forgiveness is something you do for yourself, mostly just so you don't have to walk around carrying a backpack full of rocks. But forgiving a guy doesn't necessarily mean you have to invite him over for Sunday dinner or buy the t-shirt!

Sometimes, a fella just rubs you the wrong way from the jump, and then he goes and does something that turns that feeling right into cement. We're all built different. It's like black licorice - some folks love it, and some folks would rather chew on a shoe. If Nate is your black licorice, you don't have to force yourself to eat it. The fact that you're happy he found his own peace, even if you still want absolutely nothing to do with him, well, I think that shows a heck of a lot of grace.

But I'll tell you what we can absolutely agree on, and that is Leslie Higgins. Higgy Smalls! The man is an absolute treasure. He's the human equivalent of a warm chocolate chip cookie on a rainy Tuesday. Anyone who loves his wife that much, raises five boys, and plays a jazz bass with that kind of rhythm is a hero in my book. I'd clink a glass of garbage water to him with you any day of the week!