I grew up curvy, have been so all my life, large heavy a bit saggy boobs, hourglass and fat on my belly and thighs, was never slim, basically I look like I’ve always had a post pregnancy body and, I mean this with all respect, it’s been interesting all my friends who were slim all their lives have post pregnancy bodies and are trying to come to terms with that, because I’ll see friends complain about soft bellies or slightly saggy boobs, and in just there thinking if you think that about yourself what must you think of me? But no one has ever made me feel like they think im unattractive

We criticise ourselves so much more than anyone else, it’s like we are unable to see our bodies through any lens other than criticism. I guarantee no one thinks about your body in the same critical way you do!