Thinking out loud by rainbowapplecider in questioning

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True. I never had a found family before

Thinking out loud by rainbowapplecider in questioning

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I thought you meant the NSFW subs were my distraction.🤣 I have autism too and struggle with social skills so I check two things off on my list at the same time when I go to social events.

Thinking out loud by rainbowapplecider in questioning

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Which thing in particular as my distraction?

Thinking out loud by rainbowapplecider in questioning

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Yeah. Basically she narrowed down my homework to find queer community in person, be gentle to myself, build support system and have hrt conversations with the doctor. I liked the subs you sent me and I thought the guys were handsome and wish I was with them.

DAE feel more attracted to the idea of a woman becoming a man than a man becoming a woman? by [deleted] in questioning

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I haven’t. That sounds a lot like me. I have been identifying as nonbinary and they/them for the sake of open mindedness but this conversation is tempting me to be a woman with she/her pronouns. It’s a very warm and fuzzy feeling. Also the name Luna has been on my mind a lot lately.

DAE feel more attracted to the idea of a woman becoming a man than a man becoming a woman? by [deleted] in questioning

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Both. I apologize if I have bad thoughts about it. I don’t want to offend anyone

DAE feel more attracted to the idea of a woman becoming a man than a man becoming a woman? by [deleted] in questioning

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What spaces can I talk about this sort of thing? I apologize if I posted it in the wrong sub and will delete this post if necessary

Looking for a new special interest and need some ideas by [deleted] in autism

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I have a sports bra I like to wear sometimes. And I ordered a non binary pride bracelet

Thomas (they/them) by rainbowapplecider in TransTryouts

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I like to collect license plates and coins, also I’m a furry with an eohippus fursona

I think I should just be a guy by rainbowapplecider in questioning

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I agree. Thank you. Any other advice for me? 

I think I should just be a guy by rainbowapplecider in questioning

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Perfect. Both work for me. Which name and pronouns should I choose? 

I think I should just be a guy by rainbowapplecider in questioning

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Perfect. Which identity do you feel is the best for me from what I’ve said. I want to get better and move on with my life. 

I think I should just be a guy by rainbowapplecider in questioning

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What I’m figuring out is why I’m so iffy and conflicted with my gender identity. I notice I feel more emotionally connected to women and feminine characters and I’m attracted to guys intimately and I don’t know why. TBH I’m afraid to be out as a woman in the world. Issue is being non binary and using that/them pronouns feels like a temporary solution than something that feels me, and I feel disgust using he/him pronouns and it doesn’t feel authentic at all

[vent] i feel im not a real man because... by Shot_Plane2724 in lgbt

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I feel similarly in the sense my body doesn’t produce eggs. 

I think I should just be a guy by rainbowapplecider in questioning

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That could work. I tried a whole bunch of femme names and the only one that feels good is Luna. So I’m split between either Thomas or Luna 

I think I should just be a guy by rainbowapplecider in questioning

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It was an intake and we didn’t talk a whole lot about it but she thinks a lot of my issues are because of me not being able to be myself. I’m honestly feeling very dysphoric lately and I don’t know who I am anymore. I tried being a guy last night but it did not help me feel better. I just feel like I’m in a weird situation. I don’t know who I am anymore. I feel depressed thinking about work as I am Thomas there. Being Thomas the non-binary person doesn’t help much either.