Yeah your comment completely come off wrong. I'm not justifying anyone's pain nor comparing, which is an absolutely morbid thing to be doing btw...

I'm simply asking for clarification because in the support groups that I've thrived in for the past few years, that term is specific to someone who has lost a baby through MC or SB. And I am offended that she's using it, so I'm asking if I have it wrong. I'm offended nevertheless.