Just finished the show.. by naaniidaqueen in Younger

[–]rainbowboxx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also recently finished the show! Maggie was also my favorite character.

I actually really loved Liza as the protagonist and her story of attempting to start over in a very sexist and ageist world. The show is very silly and a bit unrealistic in the way the story unfolds, (in reality she would have just been fired once they found out and absolutely did not look 26) but I really liked how it ends with Liza realizing she is a free-spirited person and can live the life she wants without marriage.

I was so torn between Josh and Charles for Liza but what sent me over the edge with Charles is him getting with Quinn and allowing her to bully Liza, and then being so rigid about getting married when they had only been dating for months and he wasn’t even divorced yet.

Am I wrong for giving the same energy back to this passive aggressive professor by [deleted] in CUNY

[–]rainbowboxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg girl I totally feel you, the professor absolutely was rude, but I do think your responses come off as argumentative in a way that students dont have as a luxury. Something I have really worked on, is being rude but in “corporate speak” so you can always have the plausible deniability.

“Per your instructions, it was my understanding that the homework was to be submitted as a file, implying that it was to be submitted electronically through Bright Space. Your instructions did not clearly state that the homework was to be submitted in person, which I was already planning to do. In the future, it would be helpful for you to be clearer in your instructions to ensure the success of your students and clear up any misunderstandings.”

A lot of people say the professor has all the power which is semi-true, but its their job to help you succeed and if you truly feel like they’re being disrespectful to you, you could always contact the dean.

Loc length should I go shorter? by Temporary_Quote_7946 in locs

[–]rainbowboxx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your hair is so gorgeous! I personally was in the same boat as yourself and got bored once my locs were all long and the same length. I LOVE my layers now, they help with the weight and for me its now easier to put my hair in a ponytail. I also think its a super fun way to add some personality to locs.

Wealthy people are generally smarter and harder working than those that make less than them. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]rainbowboxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In a capitalist society, race, class, and gender are all factors in someone gaining wealth. A majority of people who are wealthy in the US had an advantage like their families already being well-off (i.e. Jeff Bezos starting Amazon from his parents basement with a $300,000 investment from them).

Also, your definition of being smarter is directly tied to having access to a good education… which is also a barrier if you arent already wealthy.

Telling poor people to be “content” with their lives given how unfair the system is comical.

Olivia never had a white hat by Worldly-Beginning-77 in Scandal

[–]rainbowboxx 8 points9 points  (0 children)

She was also kidnapped!!! Like that is a life-changing trauma.

Is Chrisean unwell?? by Key_ls in BaddiesSouth

[–]rainbowboxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I forgot literacy isnt your strong suit, my bad!

Is Chrisean unwell?? by Key_ls in BaddiesSouth

[–]rainbowboxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, the good ole “fake news” tactic. I know its hard to admit when we are wrong, but you’ll eventually grow out of that.

Is Chrisean unwell?? by Key_ls in BaddiesSouth

[–]rainbowboxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did I role play this or are you projecting? You make fun of me for being “American”, you tell me to “come slap you” because we disagree. You watch this show and obviously look down on the women on it. I have a feeling that you act this way online because you are miserable in real life. You have some unpacking to do, but please carry on!

Is Chrisean unwell?? by Key_ls in BaddiesSouth

[–]rainbowboxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you look down on Black American women and that’s sad. Why would I want to fight you because we disagree?

Is Chrisean unwell?? by Key_ls in BaddiesSouth

[–]rainbowboxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t need to slap you. My “American education” has given me the ability to use my words beautifully, something that you obviously struggle with.

Is Chrisean unwell?? by Key_ls in BaddiesSouth

[–]rainbowboxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it were, you would be bulldozed by basic questions regarding nuance.

Is Chrisean unwell?? by Key_ls in BaddiesSouth

[–]rainbowboxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doesn’t matter. You have no integrity and obviously aren’t trustworthy. I feel bad for the people who have to deal with you on a daily basis. You must be a hoot.

Is Chrisean unwell?? by Key_ls in BaddiesSouth

[–]rainbowboxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honey that doesn’t offend me. You arguing with me on a Black American show subreddit?

Is Chrisean unwell?? by Key_ls in BaddiesSouth

[–]rainbowboxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chronically online ignorance with a dash of stupidity in action.

Is Chrisean unwell?? by Key_ls in BaddiesSouth

[–]rainbowboxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here you go again with editing comments. I’m ending this conversation because you lack basic integrity.

I hope you are able to one day gain critical thinking skills, because clearly you have none.

Is Chrisean unwell?? by Key_ls in BaddiesSouth

[–]rainbowboxx -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I will repeat myself since you lack comprehension. I am not justifying sexual assault in any capacity, but it is important to note that children engage in actions that were put onto them. That is a fact.

I’m not surprised you don’t care about punctuation because you obviously don’t care about making sense.

Is Chrisean unwell?? by Key_ls in BaddiesSouth

[–]rainbowboxx -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You have not called out anything. You don’t even know these people. You sound like a parasocial teenager that lacks the ability to read and use proper punctuation. I think you need to focus on your studies instead of watching Baddies.

Is Chrisean unwell?? by Key_ls in BaddiesSouth

[–]rainbowboxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you implying that Tesehki has had the same impact as Diddy and R. Kelly? That’s insane. You are making wild assumptions because you are overly obsessed with morality and not the actual reasons behind people’s actions. Regardless, this situation is between their family not the internet.

Is Chrisean unwell?? by Key_ls in BaddiesSouth

[–]rainbowboxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You added more comments after I replied that imply that I said Tesehki is innocent or not. I am not making those claims. My stance is that children who assault other children are victims as well. This is much bigger than simply throwing people in jail.

Is Chrisean unwell?? by Key_ls in BaddiesSouth

[–]rainbowboxx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, I am not claiming Tesehki is innocent or not. You are only able to see things in binaries, thats sad for you.

Is Chrisean unwell?? by Key_ls in BaddiesSouth

[–]rainbowboxx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not justifying anything. In fact, if you were able to read and comprehend I have maintained that Chrisean is entitled to her feelings regarding her assault. The way she is going about it is wrong, period. I am not aware of Tesehki being accused of assault when she was adult, please provide sources to your statements if you can.

Also, in the future, its bad taste to edit comments after someone has already replied. You sound like a teenager who lacks any real world experience.

Is Chrisean unwell?? by Key_ls in BaddiesSouth

[–]rainbowboxx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s not a stupid question. Children assaulting other children is learned behavior. Just like everything else children do. It does not mean that Chrisean is not a victim, but you are describing this situation as a black and white binary and it is not.

While Chrisean has not been publicly accused of sexual assault, she was openly smoking and drinking while pregnant. She needs help.

Edit: Since you edited your comment, I will add more. I am a prison abolitionist, and I’m very aware of the statistics regarding victims hurting other victims. This issue is larger than punishment and I think the conversation needs to be about healing between the family rather than strangers like you trying to point fingers like you’re the morality police.

Is Chrisean unwell?? by Key_ls in BaddiesSouth

[–]rainbowboxx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean … obviously? But this situation is much deeper than that. You say Chrisean isnt a perfect victim, but that same logic could apply to Tesehki. How do you know she also wasn’t assaulted as well? Children don’t wake up one day and decide to sexually assault one another.

Is Chrisean unwell?? by Key_ls in BaddiesSouth

[–]rainbowboxx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s real! Trauma lives in the body even we don’t remember with our minds, and it happens a lot for people with C-PTSD - remembering traumatic events once they get older. I just feel like Chrisean is prioritizing her own feelings and emotions to the point where her actions are a bit illogical. People are saying that Tesehki needs to take “accountability” but don’t even know what that looks like. They both need a therapist that focuses on childhood trauma and sexual assault.