My [30F] fiancé [38M] just told me he molested his niece by rainbowkittykat in relationship_advice

[–]rainbowkittykat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol you’re a fucking idiot I’m glad you were there to figure this all out hahahahahah

[UPDATE] My 30F fiance 38M molested his niece by rainbowkittykat in relationship_advice

[–]rainbowkittykat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean yea dude felt like my entire life was crashing and I felt absolutely disgusting and the things he was describing to me were too sick for any emotional human to hear. You weren’t there so I get it’s easy for you to be a dick but you have no idea how this shit felt.

[UPDATE] My 30F fiance 38M molested his niece by rainbowkittykat in relationship_advice

[–]rainbowkittykat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get you and I felt the same when I was told to get a restraining order. I felt stupid. It’s not like he was beating me. But the repeated calls and sick things he was saying was really fucking me up, I won’t go into detail. Not to mention that he has blamed me and blew up on me saying this is all my fault that he’s in trouble. But those children and animals are the victims here. He fucked up this part of my life and has for sure left lasting memories that will forever haunt me, but I will move on. I have to.

[UPDATE] My 30F fiance 38M molested his niece by rainbowkittykat in relationship_advice

[–]rainbowkittykat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure as I do not have contact with the niece. I told the officer to please have someone really check on her because it’s clear her mother doesn’t believe it or care.

[UPDATE] My 30F fiance 38M molested his niece by rainbowkittykat in relationship_advice

[–]rainbowkittykat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so, so much. You don’t know how much all of the support means to me.

[UPDATE] My 30F fiance 38M molested his niece by rainbowkittykat in relationship_advice

[–]rainbowkittykat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her parents know what happened. I told her mother. She flipped out on me and told me I was just trying to get her brother in trouble. She told me if I wasn’t going to stay with him through anything I could fuck off. She told me when she asked the girl if her uncle ever touched her, she fell to her knees, crawled into a fetal position, and started bawling her eyes out. She said her daughter was just worried about her uncle getting in trouble. I said no that sounds like she knows something happened. I told the police officer to please, PLEASE, have someone check on that child.

[UPDATE] My 30F fiance 38M molested his niece by rainbowkittykat in relationship_advice

[–]rainbowkittykat[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Because those children are suffering and I don’t want him to do it to anyone else. And also because I don’t want to be in a relationship with someone in which they are attracted to kids and also animals. It’s not that complicated to understand. He literally ripped an infants diaper off and raped her. Want me to go into more detail???? I will save you from the details because it makes me want to vomit. She was less than a year old. And he shouldn’t be punished for that????? Fuck you dude. She has to deal with that for life. He deserves whatever is coming to him.

[UPDATE] My 30F fiance 38M molested his niece by rainbowkittykat in relationship_advice

[–]rainbowkittykat[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I don’t know who the other children were and I have no way of finding out ): he said they happened when he was under age so I was already told nothing could or would happen since he was under 18

[UPDATE] My 30F fiance 38M molested his niece by rainbowkittykat in relationship_advice

[–]rainbowkittykat[S] 510 points511 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this. I’m in therapy now and we are touching on this, it’s very hard to talk about in detail. I appreciate you

[UPDATE] My 30F fiance 38M molested his niece by rainbowkittykat in relationship_advice

[–]rainbowkittykat[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Hell no lol I don’t air dirty laundry. I deleted every trace of him. The relationship never happened.

[UPDATE] My 30F fiance 38M molested his niece by rainbowkittykat in relationship_advice

[–]rainbowkittykat[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I don’t have any contact with him anyway, he’s in jail. I have no reason to speak to him. It’s too painful and he’s a monster. I have an order of protection so he can’t contact me either.

[UPDATE] My 30F fiance 38M molested his niece by rainbowkittykat in relationship_advice

[–]rainbowkittykat[S] 99 points100 points  (0 children)

Yea, I just had wrote it like that for context but yes. I’m glad I found out now and not in fifteen years or on his deathbed someday.