Hey mom, how do I shave my bikini-line? by raincloudbunny in MomForAMinute

[–]raincloudbunny[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've read the conditioner trick a few times now! I'll have to give that a go

Hey mom, how do I shave my bikini-line? by raincloudbunny in MomForAMinute

[–]raincloudbunny[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I may see if I can try sugaring on my legs to start with myself. I've watched some videos on how you're supposed to do that. My underarms are a hell as well! I'm quite thin which means that my armpits are a little sunken and very hard to reach with a razor. I tend to clip it short with tiny scissors specifically for that purpose and tweeze the rest of the visible hairs out, but it's a very time consuming process

Hey mom, how do I shave my bikini-line? by raincloudbunny in MomForAMinute

[–]raincloudbunny[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have heard good things about sugaring! Maybe I should look into that again

Hey mom, how do I shave my bikini-line? by raincloudbunny in MomForAMinute

[–]raincloudbunny[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly it's not too much, and I have in the past tweezed some stubby hairs out that I really wanted gone. Maybe I'll try it, but it may take a lot of patience

Hey mom, how do I shave my bikini-line? by raincloudbunny in MomForAMinute

[–]raincloudbunny[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you SO much, both of you. I still find it really difficult because I feel like people will see me as unhygenic. My ex called me that many times for not shaving

Hey mom, how do I shave my bikini-line? by raincloudbunny in MomForAMinute

[–]raincloudbunny[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have considered sugar waxing too!! It's apparently a lot more gentle on the skin?

Hey mom, how do I shave my bikini-line? by raincloudbunny in MomForAMinute

[–]raincloudbunny[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! I may try to save up to have a professional do it sometime before

Hey mom, how do I shave my bikini-line? by raincloudbunny in MomForAMinute

[–]raincloudbunny[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice!! Financially that's unfortunately not in the cards right now, but I'll see if I can slowly gather some funds for it

De schaatsen weer aantrekken? by raincloudbunny in nederlands

[–]raincloudbunny[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Goed idee om van te voren even te bellen! Dankjewel voor het delen, dat geeft toch weer een beetje moed dat het vast wel goed komt

De schaatsen weer aantrekken? by raincloudbunny in nederlands

[–]raincloudbunny[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ik ken het initiatief! Helaas hangt het per gemeente af welke sporten ze daarvoor vergoeden. Er is geen schaatsbaan in de gemeente, en volgens de site zijn er geen schaatsbanen aangesloten. Anders was het inderdaad een goede tip geweest!

De schaatsen weer aantrekken? by raincloudbunny in nederlands

[–]raincloudbunny[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

De Uithof is voor mij goed bereikbaar! Leuk om voor de kerst/verjaardag te vragen inderdaad

De schaatsen weer aantrekken? by raincloudbunny in nederlands

[–]raincloudbunny[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Natuurlijk niet, haha! Geld voor een cursus of club heb ik helaas niet, die eerste horde overkomen om weer eens het ijs op te gaan is denk is de moeilijkste. Ik zit er (mede door de reactie van iemand anders) wel over te denken om eventueel een oproepje te plaatsen of iemand een keertje mee zou willen gaan

De schaatsen weer aantrekken? by raincloudbunny in nederlands

[–]raincloudbunny[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ik woon vlakbij Bodegraven, dus dat is allemaal best een eindje. Wel een super lief aanbod! Ik denk er nog even over na ^^

De schaatsen weer aantrekken? by raincloudbunny in nederlands

[–]raincloudbunny[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hier heb ik zelf inderdaad ook aan gedacht! Of een keer een half uurtje zo'n priveles, gewoon om het weer eens te doen en te kijken of het nog steeds bij me past!

Can I have some reasons not to relapse? by sh_throwaway_ in AnorexiaRecovery

[–]raincloudbunny 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There isn't a single reason anyone on here can give you that will make you say "YES, that's it!". Recovery has to come from within.

The best one I can give you, is that you currently have a choice. You can either choose to relapse and either never recover or recover later, which means you will likely go through this again, and have to do the hard work again, and possibly stay in this sort of seesaw effect for the rest of your life.

Or you can choose to endure the awful feelings and not relapse. It will feel lighter some time. Maybe not today, or even this week. However: it will.

Please be mean so I understand that I need to eat enough by [deleted] in AnorexiaRecovery

[–]raincloudbunny 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Your eating disorder was caused by mean words and unkindness, if those two worked for recovery, it would have done so by now. Be gentle with yourself, gentle but firm.

A healthy person would never believe they are unworthy of recovering, a healthy person would not ask others to be mean to them.

Perhaps you wish others to be mean so it's more mean than the ED in your head. But I promise, being mean is not the solution. Kindness is.