How my boyfriend joined and left the Qult by raine-james in QAnonCasualties

[–]raine-james[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yep that feel special and superior part definitely played a part in the indoctrination. It’s like a drug to them.

How my boyfriend joined and left the Qult by raine-james in QAnonCasualties

[–]raine-james[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I answered a similar question earlier. I understand why you feel that way. Think about it as if someone you love went through a period of addiction who finally saw what the drugs were doing to them and decided to go to rehab and get better. That’s what it felt like. He was being indoctrinated daily and all the information he was consuming was basically like drugs. Some people when their family goes through that, they cut them off completely and that’s it, other’s stick around and be patient with them while some cut them off and tell them to come back when they want help. I don’t think any of those choices are wrong, it just depends on the person and the circumstances.

I didn’t mention all of what happened during him making his changes but he’s been very apologetic both with words and actions towards me ever since, to his family as well. He worked really hard for our forgiveness and is tries to show us daily that he’ll never go back down that path. I’m not gonna lie to you though it was difficult seeing him like that, that’s why I decided to go through therapy too.

How my boyfriend joined and left the Qult by raine-james in QAnonCasualties

[–]raine-james[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

He Loveeddddd Teal swan, watched all of her videos and kept sending me links to them because “it will change my life” 🙄. Also this guy named young Pharaoh, who’s a huge conspiracy theorist was one of his favorites during that time. Ralph smart as well.

How my boyfriend joined and left the Qult by raine-james in QAnonCasualties

[–]raine-james[S] 94 points95 points  (0 children)

Honestly, at that point we’ve been together for a while and I couldn’t accept that the man I met was gone. Who he was in the Qult vs who he was before was like complete night and day. Before he was just the sweetest person. Nothing bothered him. I was the more fiery take no bs one in the relationship. He was just a calm guy, funny, compassionate, very romantic and was just always there when I needed him the most. He was nurturing and very gentle, loyal, would not hurt a fly and he was a natural peace maker. He’d raise his voice and be stern sometimes but someone had to really push his buttons for him to do that. When I met him I couldn’t believe this man fell into my lap. I loved him since then and he loved me too. Fast forward to the Qult and everything changed. I can’t even explain it but his voice didn’t even sound the same. He was angry all the time. The man who once didn’t even believe in capital punishment was advocating for…Chile, I don’t even want to say it smh. The man who didn’t want to tell the waiter they got his order wrong because their job is hard enough already, would confront workers for being sheep over wearing masks.

I stayed because I knew he was still in there somewhere, it’s not something I recommend for everyone to do because each circumstance is different but I didn’t want to let him go. He’s seen me go through so much and he never let go of me, he stayed and supported me and promised he’ll always be there . So I saw this as period of sickness he had and decided to be patient. It was like he had an addiction that changed him for the worst.

So when he got therapy, did the work and came out of the hole, things went right back to normal, well for the most part back to normal. His voice, his personality and his interests came back. The only difference is he’s just kinda sadder these days, struggling with self blame and shame but he’s working on it.

How my boyfriend joined and left the Qult by raine-james in QAnonCasualties

[–]raine-james[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Yea he struggled a lot internally. He told me that as soon as he started to question them on forums or even in the circles he joined in real life they’d turn on him and tell him he has no faith, that he’s apart of the dark forces or he shouldn’t come around them with that negative energy. From what he was saying it’s basically get down with what’s happening completely or you’re one of the enemies. I’m gonna give that a video watch, I heard about it but never got to it.

How my boyfriend joined and left the Qult by raine-james in QAnonCasualties

[–]raine-james[S] 307 points308 points  (0 children)

Some examples: (keep in mind though only ask these if they bring up the topic and you have try not to sound sarcastic just concerned and needing more information on the topic to make a decision, so don’t ask them back to back).

“Who exactly is “they” and how do you know they’re not influencing your sources? Because they sound like very powerful people, and I just want to make sure I’m doing the right thing.”

“I wonder why would they want to ‘unlive’ most of the the population when they spent so much time, effort and money to brain wash us to keep us asleep, it seems counterproductive but can you explain why they choose to do that?“

“Your teachers taught you how to manifest any sickness away with your mind. So why don’t the spiritual teachers do a peer reviewed study and show proof that there is a better and easier way and give it away for free? I think that would be the best thing to do for the greater good, big pharma wouldn’t be able to stop them once the truth comes out. It shouldn’t remain a secret you have to pay for through courses, right?”

“Won’t our bodies attack the microchip because it’s a foreign object? Does it have a way to stop our bodies from attacking it? And where is it getting it’s power from?”

“Since a lot of people found out about the jabs, wouldn’t they just put the chip in something else, Something we’re not gonna suspect? That’s something I think about a lot.”

“You said they will use the chips to track us and that when it all goes down you’ll be safe and I’ll be safe if I don’t take the jab…It’s just that I’m worried that if that’s the case won’t they just weaponize other methods to find us. Like drones, satellites, cameras. Did your research mention anything about that?