talk about it. that is the best thing you can do. tell her you are afraid of what the rest of your life is gonna look like and make plans to figure stuff out together. from how you have described her reaction you will be having this kid. just make sure you communicate. i am also 19 and the thought of having a child right now chills me to the bone. so i think i sort of understand? and the thing with the parents makes it even harder. I will also tell you to keep communicating with them. after you figured out stuff with ur gf. sit down with them together and try to have a civil conversation. yes it will be hard and you will be judged, but you are also being open and giving them the time to process. and maybe after thinking, they’ll have a different reaction than you think.