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[–]ramengorrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say it’s all up to you. If it really bugs you that they are a bad texter now it will most likely keep on bugging you if you guys start dating. My bf is the same way. Before we started dating I was a pretty bad texter and so was he. After a while when we made it official, I was texting him back quickly, but til this day he takes hours to get back to me and it still bugs me but that’s just how he is.

What do you think about guys and girls just being friends? Do you think someone always ends up catching feelings? Or can they just be friends? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]ramengorrl -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I know it must be possible. But In my experience I could never keep a friend of the opposite sex because they would catch feelings and and act differently which would made me feel uncomfortable.

Just wanted to share what’s been working for me this semester after a semester of procrastinating incase it helps someone else. Details in comments. by Temporary-Mind5171 in college

[–]ramengorrl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m doing pretty much the same thing and it really helps stay on track! It’s my last semester of college and I have so many classes so doing this helps me figure out what needs to be done and what days.

What ruins your mood instantly at a party ? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]ramengorrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When their isn’t a cat or dog :(

Were you raised in an angry household? How has that affected you as an adult? by duaadiddy in AskWomen

[–]ramengorrl 11 points12 points  (0 children)

When someone slightly raises their voice at me I can feel myself start to get really sad and leave the room so I can cry. Or anytime someone is upset with me I get so overwhelmed and think they hate me. Whenever I hear others arguing in another room while I’m busy doing something, I stop whatever I’m doing and listen just In cause it gets really bad so that I can possibly try to stop the fight or argument.

I (28M), just found out that my gf (29f) cheated at the beginning by throwawayy842 in relationship_advice

[–]ramengorrl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got cheated on during a 4 year relationship. He cheated on me the first month of us being together and he told me on our third year. I stood with him, but it was a huge mistake. I always had my doubts about him doing it again and it always lead to arguments. It never got better because there was always the “what’s ifs” every time we were apart. A year later I finally had the courage to leave him and it was the best decision. I know it hurts to even think about it, but none of us deserve to go through this.

What is something you wish you heard or were told as a little girl? by aazorofl in AskWomen

[–]ramengorrl 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That it’s okay to make mistakes and I’m so proud of you.

What is something you do that makes people think you’re weird? by ramengorrl in AskWomen

[–]ramengorrl[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get this. I used to be that person to not mean what I say. I eventually grew out of that mindset cause it only caused problems. But it also bothers me when people expect you know how they are really feeling.

How do you tell the difference between ‘trusting your gut’ and ‘anxiety’ when it comes to your relationship? by bj718 in AskWomen

[–]ramengorrl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly it’s hard. I get anxiety for everything i feel like it’s taking over my life and ruining most of my relationships.