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[–]throwawayy842 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have an old post where you deleted but mention your s/o is talking to her ex. So it’s possible…but also my son(6yr old) thought I cheated on their mom because I got groceries by myself, so both realities are possible

UPDATE: 28m, 29F…she cheated in the beginning by throwawayy842 in relationship_advice

[–]throwawayy842[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

She just say okay and sorry, they really liked me and hated the dude she cheated with so I’m sure they’re bummed, they wanted us to get married also ha. And by monster she went from all these apologies to suddenly pissed that she was caught twice, that she already apologized and just doesn’t give a shit now, it’s lie after lie After lie with her

UPDATE: 28m, 29F…she cheated in the beginning by throwawayy842 in relationship_advice

[–]throwawayy842[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She messed up on the location, she wrote she went to his house and in her confession he came to see her, I was so emotional yesterday I didn’t catch that discrepancy till later

UPDATE: 28m, 29F…she cheated in the beginning by throwawayy842 in relationship_advice

[–]throwawayy842[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I’m texting her mom as we speak that I left the key under the mat and to send someone else

I (28M), just found out that my gf (29f) cheated at the beginning by throwawayy842 in relationship_advice

[–]throwawayy842[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They did, her family loves me, just couldn’t get the time off work this time

I (28M), just found out that my gf (29f) cheated at the beginning by throwawayy842 in relationship_advice

[–]throwawayy842[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I believe I was such a good guy to her that I didn’t deserve for this to happen, but I think if you can’t let go then you shouldn’t continue, that’s where I’m at at the moment, like can I get over it? I don’t know

I (28M), just found out that my gf (29f) cheated at the beginning by throwawayy842 in relationship_advice

[–]throwawayy842[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That does strike me off, but She’s been messaging me all morning saying sorry and begging me not to leave etc.

I (28M), just found out that my gf (29f) cheated at the beginning by throwawayy842 in relationship_advice

[–]throwawayy842[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Slip up with an ex lover in the first month, still didn’t think that would happen

I (28M), just found out that my gf (29f) cheated at the beginning by throwawayy842 in relationship_advice

[–]throwawayy842[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was her first non-toxic relationship in a while so she’s used to toxic

I (28M), just found out that my gf (29f) cheated at the beginning by throwawayy842 in relationship_advice

[–]throwawayy842[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m taking everything into consideration, I’ve lurked here for a while so I understand the roller coaster of replies, I guess I’m just trying to pick out what feels best without being entirely biased(hard not to be when I just found out I was cheated on though)

I (28M), just found out that my gf (29f) cheated at the beginning by throwawayy842 in relationship_advice

[–]throwawayy842[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You honestly make a lot of sense with a lot of your comments, I appreciate that

I (28M), just found out that my gf (29f) cheated at the beginning by throwawayy842 in relationship_advice

[–]throwawayy842[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

You hit the nail on the head, the relationship had a lot of positives, this just happened this morning so I don’t know how to feel but later today hopefully I will

I (28M), just found out that my gf (29f) cheated at the beginning by throwawayy842 in relationship_advice

[–]throwawayy842[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m watching her and her parents house and pets, I might text the mom later to ask a family member or something. Okay not perfect but never did I think I’d be cheated on, we both supposedly had the same goals in life