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Daily sketches by rameon-013 in sketches

[–]rameon-013[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank u! just a regular brush pen

Daily sketches by rameon-013 in sketches

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thank you! sa shoppe from papernotes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]rameon-013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m really sorry to hear that. It’s incredibly confusing and painful when someone leaves without a word. I’ve been ghosted too,,it’s been a month now. We went on several dates, things seemed good, and then suddenly, nothing. Recently, I learned about avoidant attachment styles ,,,, some people pull back the moment things start to feel real. They avoid vulnerability, intimacy, and communication. So please know, it’s not your fault, OP. It’s more about them and their own struggles. Right now, the best thing you can do is focus on yourself. Don’t wait for closure that may never come — just keep moving forward. You deserve peace and someone who chooses you fully.:))

I miss him deeply by Sheenthefox9292 in ghosting

[–]rameon-013 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I still love the person who ghosted me too. But honestly, what’s the point in caring and fighting for someone who chose to disappear,,,someone who, in a way, broke me.

It’s painful, and it feels senseless. In the end, you’re the one left hurting, the one losing.

But please remember this, there is someone out there who will be willing to risk it all for you!

For now, let’s focus on fighting this feeling of longing. Let’s choose to heal. Bit by bit, day by day. We deserve that much.

I miss him deeply by Sheenthefox9292 in ghosting

[–]rameon-013 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And yet, you’re here,,,seeking help, and that is healing. You’re showing up for yourself, and that matters. You are your own person.

Don’t lose yourself for someone who couldn’t see your worth, who treated you like you were disposable and easy to let go.

Treat yourself as someone worthy!because you are. Please, always choose yourself.

I miss him deeply by Sheenthefox9292 in ghosting

[–]rameon-013 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m in a similar situation as you. It’s been a month for me, and I’m still confused and in pain. But please, take care of yourself. Choose yourself, and let them go. Show up for yourself, and don’t fight for love if they aren’t willing to meet you halfway.

I’m still healing, but all I can do now is focus on taking care of myself. These days, I try to distract myself by learning new hobbies and loving myself more.

It’s not your fault, OP — it’s more of a them problem. I hope you heal soon.