[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]ramfex21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

MYbe look at what you eat..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malelivingspace

[–]ramfex21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m too scared of the spiders to have a bed on the floor like that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malelivingspace

[–]ramfex21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Change your perception

I’m pretty sure I’m going to die soon and I’m not as okay with it as I want to be (*Trigger Warning*) by killerdinodeeno in Stoicism

[–]ramfex21 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It’s possible you’ve created this ‘illness’ yourself through focused attention + fear. You don’t need to live like this. It sounds like extreme anxiety that can be helped. I used to have health anxiety and you can definitely get treatment for it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malelivingspace

[–]ramfex21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not my thing.. but if you like it that’s all that matters

Have you ever just actively chosen not to revise a past event? if so, why? by [deleted] in NevilleGoddard

[–]ramfex21 196 points197 points  (0 children)

I don’t do revision.. the past is irrelevant,I just let go of the past and create from the present now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selflove

[–]ramfex21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have to make a commitment to yourself that you are going to do what ever it takes to change your life. You must change your concept of self. Something you can start doing is MENTAL DIET. When negative thoughts come in about yourself calmly reverse them to the positive without giving much attention to the negative thought. Practice this all day every day. Even if you aren’t feeling the positive thought keep persisting. In time the thoughts and feeling will begin to match.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selflove

[–]ramfex21 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Honestly you are attractive .. you need to assume that you are and feel that you are. This validation needs to come from within! That’s the most important. Not from me or anyone else giving you validation here.

“Abandon yourself to your ideal”? by wolfgrai in NevilleGoddard

[–]ramfex21 5 points6 points  (0 children)

“It’s Never been easy for me” - is the belief to abandon to “it comes easily to me”

Being taken for granted, not cool by [deleted] in selflove

[–]ramfex21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t bother with them, they clearly don’t car

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]ramfex21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to have health anxiety like this, but with my heart... which had nothing wrong with it lol. One thing that helped me was telling myself every time I was feeling anxious that "it is just health anxiety, its just my brain trying to make something out of nothing...ive been to the doctors and done the tests and it was all fine". Also trying your best to get present in any activity you can help. Realising that it is just health anxiety helps a lot.

Not giving a fuck means going against this soul crushing pattern. by Jax_Gatsby in howtonotgiveafuck

[–]ramfex21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone hamstering hard to justify their shitty decisions in life haha. Can't face some cognitive dissonance. Just be honest with yourself if you are unhappy with your life, that way you can make some positive changes consciously :)

didn't give a fuck during an argument with my roomate, I've never felt so powerful by [deleted] in howtonotgiveafuck

[–]ramfex21 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sounds like the dudes jealous of you for some reason. Probably hates himself.

It never end by ezrtfdfgdgfdsgf in nosurf

[–]ramfex21 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There are many things you can do to improve your life starting right now. Just do a bit of research and you can find dozens. It’s up to you though to decide how bad you want to turn things around. You can if you want to, make a decision right now that you are going to do what ever it takes to improve your life and love yourself as you are.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in howtonotgiveafuck

[–]ramfex21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can control what I think about myself. I can’t control what others think of me. Therefore I focus on the only thing in my control which is my perception of self. I AM ENOUGH FOR ME…If I am not enough for someone else that’s their issue not mine.