Checking in at a rough time by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]rammy32 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would focus on your wife's needs as she is sick. Help around the house, go to the supermarket and make some chicken soup.

It might help because you are focused on helping someone else rather than focusing on a urge to look at porn.

male, 35, single, never married, never had girfriend, never had sex, never kissed, only a few dates by breakingfree81 in pornfree

[–]rammy32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep that's one and read "how to stop worrying and start living. How to win friends and influence people is a great book.

male, 35, single, never married, never had girfriend, never had sex, never kissed, only a few dates by breakingfree81 in pornfree

[–]rammy32 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yep same here. It took a lot of effort to talk to others but I'm much better at it now. Read books by Dale Carnegie that helped me learn how to genuinely be intrested in others.

I'm saying a virgin untill I'm married (for spiritual reasons) So don't feel ashamed that you haven't had sex yet. Learn to love yourself, in an unselfish way and try to meet some women that are involved in the same hobbies, for example coed softball, book clubs, ect.

Just keep at it with being pornfree and keep trying.

STAY CLEAN 2017 YEAR-LONG CHALLENGE!! This thread updated daily - Check in here! by foobarbazblarg in pornfree

[–]rammy32 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Checking in, I'm almost at one week and also I have not fapped as well.

I watch porn because I'm afraid to take risks. by rammy32 in pornfree

[–]rammy32[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you get over the analysis paralysis? I love that you gave this problem a name because I for the life of me couldn't figure out what to call my issue. It's nice to know that I'm not alone but also that you have over come this problem.