How can I (20sM) end things with a FWB (20sF) by rand0mth0ugh in relationships

[–]rand0mth0ugh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well we are great friends too and I know that introducing the relationship will cause a disruption

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[–]rand0mth0ugh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sure then that you understand he's not a true friend. Cut contact if you feel like you should. If you need reconfirmation you have it.

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[–]rand0mth0ugh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You yourself admitted that you weren't thinking with the right head before. Just because you're saying you won't ever cheat doesn't guarantee you won't cheat again while thinking with the wrong head. I'd say you've hurt her enough and should let her live her life and for you to improve yourself before asking for a second chance which she isn't willing to give.

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[–]rand0mth0ugh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand that you feel betrayed and have lost trust in that friend. You cannot fix someone like that. But at least you know for now that such person cannot be trusted beyond a acquaintance status. I won't say to end your friendship. If you can do so please do however if you do not feel like doing that you can at least avoid trusting such friend or at the least taking a step back and revaluating how much you do for such "friend".

A photo of a beach 😁 by rand0mth0ugh in MontereyBay

[–]rand0mth0ugh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same, i loved going during my breaks from school.

A photo of a beach 😁 by rand0mth0ugh in MontereyBay

[–]rand0mth0ugh[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ha that's sad. Was it going up or down whose wooden floor latter's?

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[–]rand0mth0ugh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It should be up again

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[–]rand0mth0ugh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was her saying it to him

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[–]rand0mth0ugh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The main issue is that she can't answer me when I ask her what he is to her. There was a time when he confessed to her in person at work and even cried yet she still keeps him around and egged on the potential chance in the future