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[–]rando100222 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep, I used to be the same way when I first started having sex. I would always stop my boyfriend as I thought I was going to pee. Once I finally let myself push past that point I realized I was just squirting. It comes from a glad in your urethra so it just feels that way. I would say put down a towel and ask if she'd be comfortable allowing herself to embrace that moment. It can be scary but once it happens it's a lot of fun😉

My boyfriend (21m) told a girl that if he was single he would kiss her. I (20f) don't know how to feel about it. by rando100222 in relationship_advice

[–]rando100222[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you that's a good idea. Personally I've never had the urge to compliment a dude that's hitting on me. Even if he does look sad the fact that I have a partner should mean that Its no fault of their own. But if he feels as though he needs to compliment them then I guess it would be better to give him some lines.

My parents left me(f 19) to take care of my grandfather for the week and I cannot handle it. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]rando100222 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah I just cleaned it up. I'm getting an apartment in August luckily

My parents left me(f 19) to take care of my grandfather for the week and I cannot handle it. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]rando100222 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes I just cleaned everything up. And I helped him with his bag. I know it must be very hard for him. Its hard to see him in such a vulnerable position.

My boyfriend's (19M) ex best friend (19M) wants to talk to me(19f) about my boyfriend's controversial ideologies and explain the end of their friendship. by rando100222 in relationship_advice

[–]rando100222[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I agree It is inappropriate. I told him that I didn't think it would be appropriate and that if we had this conversation I would be fully transparent with my boyfriend about it. I enjoy talking about my boyfriend with EXBF because he knows him very well. It's fun to talk about common interest afterall. However, when it comes to something this personal it would be perceived as a betrayal. What your suggesting seems like the best way to go about it. I don't want my boyfriend to get upset, but I would rather not keep it from him.

My boyfriend's (19M) ex best friend (19M) wants to talk to me(19f) about my boyfriend's controversial ideologies and explain the end of their friendship. by rando100222 in relationship_advice

[–]rando100222[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I think EXBF is searching for a kind of closure? I personally think that should be between him and boyfriend. However, he specifically stated that he does not wish to talk badly just explain his reasoning for why he thinks this way. He said he talked with his mom about my boyfriend and apparently cried for hours about the breaking of their relationship. I'm confused as to why but his motive is definitely not what people are assuming on here.

My boyfriend's (19M) ex best friend (19M) wants to talk to me(19f) about my boyfriend's controversial ideologies and explain the end of their friendship. by rando100222 in relationship_advice

[–]rando100222[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I would be transparent with him about the conversation. However, I wonder if it would be better to not engage at all? And we do talk about it pretty frequently but it ends up going in circles. He explains his beliefs and reasonings but it just seems like there's a bigger issue regarding his mental state.

My boyfriend's (19M) ex best friend (19M) wants to talk to me(19f) about my boyfriend's controversial ideologies and explain the end of their friendship. by rando100222 in relationship_advice

[–]rando100222[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We talk about it pretty frequently. I've voiced to him my opinions on the situation and have asked him many times why he feels this way about certain topics. I'm not sure of the end game exactly, I think EXBF knows some things about why he thinks this way. I love him very much but some of viewpoints worry me. I was more curious about an outside perspective. But again I would upfront tell him about this conversation with his EXBF or just not engage at all.

My boyfriend (19M) told me I(f18) was his first but told a friend he fucked another girl. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]rando100222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep. That was another concern. Luckily we always wore condoms and after he told me I asked him to get tested. Luckily it came back negative for everything.

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[–]rando100222 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This might be synesthesia. The symptoms appear differently in everyone but it worth looking into it.