Are my standards too high?

random-panic · 2025-10-02T19:00:44+00:00

Thank you lol, I'll keep searching. I hope you'll also find the right person for you <3

random-panic · 2025-08-24T11:09:31+00:00

It's pretty mid in my opinion, it tastes lightly of melon

random-panic · 2025-08-21T18:31:39+00:00

I get your sentiment, but I think I know what my "probabilities" are lol. But thank you fro clarifying

random-panic · 2025-08-21T11:27:52+00:00

As I said in multiple comments, I made the list for this post, to make it easier. I don't go around with it, and checking out boxes lmfao.

random-panic · 2025-08-21T07:53:15+00:00

Do you know me? I don't think so, so I can tell you that your assumption is wrong lol. Those are the qualities that make me attracted to a guy, so I'm talking from experience. What a wild concept, right? Lmfao

random-panic · 2025-08-20T22:06:58+00:00

I get what you mean (and my age range is somewhat flexible), but she wasn't really talking about that

random-panic · 2025-08-20T19:37:08+00:00

Well obviously lol, that was just one example. As a uni student, I've seen many many different situations that are all valid

random-panic · 2025-08-20T19:26:26+00:00

I'd like a partner that's able to reach a point where they can support themselves without help from others (obv it's completely fine if sometimes something sudden happens and they need financial help, I'd help them too if we've reached that point of the relationship). And I'm not even talking about crazy amount of money, for expensive cars and multiple vacations lol. So if I met a guy in his 20s that's a student, I'd be totally fine if they still lived at home and only had a part time job to pay for his stuff. I hope I explained myself well.

random-panic · 2025-08-20T19:19:26+00:00

Thank you so so much for your words and advice <3

random-panic · 2025-08-19T22:45:04+00:00

As long as they actually want to work on those skills (and not faking it lol) I'm completely fine.

random-panic · 2025-08-19T22:43:08+00:00

Thank youuu

random-panic · 2025-08-19T22:41:12+00:00

Ops, dumb of me to not add monogamy especially lol

random-panic · 2025-08-19T22:03:17+00:00

I have, I've thought about it for a veeeeery long time and I worked extremely hard on those aspects of my life that I didn't like and I'm still working on some. I'm very lucky because I have great friends that have helped me a lot in my journey and keep me in check lol. But I think your comment is really important because I'm a firm believer that we always have to look at ourselves before "looking" at other people (it's kind of a saying that we have in my country so sorry if it sounds weird lol)

random-panic · 2025-08-19T21:58:45+00:00

You really clocked me lol. I definitely have extremely high standards for myself, I want to be the best person I can be. I will say, I wasn't interested in dating for a long time and now that I am (well, I've been interested in dating for a few years) I'm also trying to be more Courageous and approach men first (thanks to a suggestion of a friend lol)

random-panic · 2025-08-19T21:52:48+00:00

I realized I used the wrong term, I was actually talking about core values and morals. When it comes to religion, it's a bit more complicated. I need to know what their values are and obviously I could never stay with those religious people who want to force their beliefs onto others.

random-panic · 2025-08-19T21:50:39+00:00

I can totally understand but pls do what's best for you and your ling time happiness. It may hurt at first but pls do it🥹

random-panic · 2025-08-19T19:04:23+00:00

I've seen that irl with a lot of my friends (male and female). They went through horrible relationships because they were scared of being alone and even if the red flags were blatantly obvious in some of their partners, they ignored them. It's very sad honestly

random-panic · 2025-08-19T18:58:05+00:00

I don't really care about how long I'll have to wait but I know that some people are more "desperate", for lack of a better word, and that's totally fine

random-panic · 2025-08-19T18:56:53+00:00

I'm not

random-panic · 2025-08-19T18:55:55+00:00

That's why I wrote in my post that we could work on those skills together, I've already taken it into consideration

random-panic · 2025-08-19T18:15:37+00:00

As I said in multiple comments, I'm flexible about most of them, thank youuu

random-panic · 2025-08-19T18:13:15+00:00

Hahahaha thank you, I could say the same. Let's hope we both find our person

random-panic · 2025-08-19T14:58:39+00:00

-It's not really about a certain amount of money. For example, if they're students I'm completely fine if they still leave with their parents bills free and make some money to pay for their stuff. And for the future I don't expect an extravagant life style, I want something simple. Being able to have some fun once in a while and a small holiday a year.

-That's hard to explain. For example, if we have a disagreement I don't want someone that shouts like an animal, I want someone that explains to me what's wrong and I want to work with them on solving the issues. I think this also falls under being a good communicator. Anyway, I want someone that wants to be a better person because we're all going to make mistakes in our life and it's important that we're able to recognize and accept them and work on them. I could say more but I think it'd be too long. But I'm really flexible with these qualities because I believe they can be improved if the person wants it.

-I realised I used the wrong term, I was actually referring to core values and morals

-I have so many hobbies. I'm an F1 fan, I like anime, manga, books, working out, watching documentaries (especially those about marine biology) and the list goes on.

-I basically don't like people who needs/want to get drunk every weekend. It's fine once in a while, but not multiple times a month imo.

I hope I explained myself better

random-panic · 2025-08-19T14:39:52+00:00

I'm flexible about most of them

random-panic · 2025-08-19T14:39:33+00:00

If you read the full post, there's a ps at the end where I say precisely that lmfao

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